Have you ever had a woman ask you out that you weren't prepared for and weren't sure how you felt about it?

[Anonymous]

Do you think you should always just know that you want to date someone? Do you think it's OK to date someone you're not sure about. Or do you owe it to them to be 100% upfront to them about it.

[jennifer_bloom]

I had a woman who wanted to date me and she seemed not only problematic and off putting but also potentially violent. Like I felt 85% of the things she told me were lies, and she would text non-stop, when you do not have that much time to talk to someone. She also told weird stories that made her seem dangerous.

[live2dance25]

You can date, but if it doesn’t feel right or you know there’s no connection, it’s ok to be honest about it also. Just be yourself, open, and honest and they will hopefully do the same in return.

[AngryCarl3]

Yes that has happened, and as a guy I'm not prepared for making such decisions on the fly.