Do you think your previous relationships made you a stronger and wiser person?

[Finchie40]

I believe my bad relationships has taught me to be wiser and stronger when it comes to girls’ that try to take advantage of me I have witnessed and experienced so much nonsense through the years with girls’ to the point I no longer rush into a relationship with a girl , I don’t care how hot she is or how nice she is to me , because most times it’s just infatuation that you are experiencing with her , but the second she feels she has you wrapped around her finger. That’s when her true colors will shine and that’s when you should make your decision on whether you want to stay with her or leave her. Girls’ you should do this with guys’ as well , I don’t date guys’ but you should never rush into a relationship with one. Another thing is if a partner all of a sudden stops prioritizing you , stops sleeping with you or being intimate with you , be wise and kick them to the curb where they belong , because someone that truly loves you wants you by their side as much as possible not the other way around. You should always be a top priority to your partner and vice versa , if not? Stop wasting your time on them , they are probably screwing someone else or investing their time into someone else , mark my words with this. I heard so many relationship stories of guys’ and girls’ staying with a partner that barely ever has sex with them anymore and doesn’t sleep in bed with them anymore , that right there should be your answer to kick them to the curb. A partner that doesn’t prioritize you , doesn’t love you they just like the convenience of you , mark my words

[RavVid]

Stronger, wiser, and less trusting inevitably.

I find a lot of girls nickle and dime you. They ask you to get something and expect you to take the cost... but when they get something they will want to split.

You are right that when they think you are committed true colors come out. They will start shutting up shop. It is not necessarily that they are sleeping with someone else. It could be they never were that sexually interested in you or just not as enthusiastic with sex as you are.

That's partly our fault for letting them get away with it. Every time you let them get away with not tonight, you are training them they don't have to put out but you will still hang around. You are also making yourself less exciting to them.

Effectively we let them destruct the relationship.

[ArrowheadSW]

There are things that we learn from all of our relationships. We learn more what we want from a relationship, things to avoid, how to be a better partner, etc. Even when a relationship ends, there are usually things that we thing of that we learned.

[MontBlanc]

Yes, I think every relationship teaches you something.

Some teach you what love should feel like, and others teach you what you should never accept again.

Even the difficult experiences can help you understand yourself better, your boundaries, your values, and what truly matters to you in a partner.

So in that sense, past relationships can make you both stronger and wiser.

[sage2021]

Not the relationship itself, but the break up part.

[sage2021]

Thank you for the MHO 🙂🧡

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Not stronger, I never wanted to be strong, they made me gentler, but definitely the wiser.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I am grateful of them and wouldn’t change a thing. I’ve lived a life and a good one.

[madelyndrae]

Life experience makes you stronger and wise. Previous relationship have taught me to understand my self first. To have a clear perspective of what my values r.

Sex/passion in relationships fade over time. Period. It's up to both parties to keep it going.

[Finchie40]

My exes have taught me to not allow myself to be taken for granted again , most of my exes were users that were looking for a free ride , so yes it made me wiser on who to date and not to date

[madelyndrae]

Understand. I experience this in my 20s. First love kinda thing. How old where u n the age of the girls at the time?

[NicholasofAustralia]

@Finchie40 I can vouch for life experience 😅🤭🫠 I think the lady is onto something - I'm not the man at 32 as such that I completely was at 24

[Effably]

The good ones? Yes.
The bad? No, probably just a little jaded. Not a quality you need in a happy future relationship.

[Anonymous]

what I have learned from past relationships is that... they aren't incapable of being a good partner. They just chose not to be a good partner to you.

Many people don't realize what this means.

[GrammariklyIncorrekt]

Yes. Helped me learn and grow from my own mistakes as well as watch for red flags from my partner early on in the relationship.

[MikeMcMansion]

Its up to myself to have peace and joy and I’m still learning that. The world is a broken lonely selfish cold retarded hellscape. Only you can make it better, no one else is going to do that for you.

[Sal_Monella]

I was married to the devil Incarnate. Yes it has.

[LC75LC71]

After much heartbreak, the first one did.

[Anonymous]

Absofuckinglutely.

[noohair]

I agree and good luck.

[exitseven]

Not stronger but more cautious

[dudeinohio]

absolutely

[AgentG111]

Yes!

[robocop666]

wiser and stronger. I learned so much