Why does my male coworker mostly talk to me and other women at work?

[Anonymous]

He hardly interacts with males I guess this female coworker is like why he always only talk to women and sometimes to man

[DishLady]

• Theory 1: He is checking you out. Not necessarily in the rude creepy way, but just in the 2-sec blink. Some guys subconsciously just veer towards women.
• Theory 2: He's gay as a picnic basket and wants to be one of the girls.

[Anonymous]

Could be a b number of reasons. Maybe he’s feminine, so the men may not see him as a man. We have a male here at work like that. Very feminine, gets along better w the women. Plus he does whatever they w at him to do whereas a lot of the men will object if they feel like they’re being taken advantage of. It could be also that they’re jealous of him if he’s always getting female attention, especially from the ones they like.

[Avicenna]

Maybe speaking with colleagues who are female is his safest opportunity to talk to women. What do you know about him?

[Asker]

His married man

[Avicenna]

That would be a situation in which it's safe because you're colleagues and know he's married.

[Asker]

My girl friend was like why he talk to females more

[jennifer_bloom]

Same gender friendships are built on social relatability and opposite gender friendships are built on social compatibility, some people are better at compatibility based connections then they are at relatability based connections, because developing trauma or periods of isolation in their lives infringed on their natural impulse to relate to others in a habitual way.

[Nikki1989]

Many men find women easier to talk to at work because women often communicate with more warmth, empathy, or openness.

[Asker]

I agree

[Anonymous]

Maybe he’s a player. Or maybe he’s in touch with his own femininity. Could be either I guess.

[Asker]

His married

[Opinion Owner]

There are plenty of married players. In fact, him being married makes it even more likely he’s a player.

[jahaims]

Guys interact with females to get pussy.