Why am I struggling to find a girlfriend and how can I improve?

[Iamcoming]

I am unsuccesful at this ability

[Alex-Snow]

Just be yourself, get girls to talk about their life and experiences and show an interest in them. Have a genuine smile and always be honest and do not try to be someone else. Good hygiene also helps. Have you had girlfriends in the past? Any sex yet?

[Anonymous]

I know the feeling, I never had a girlfriend either, don't be like me, you still have time.

[Iamcoming]

How old are u and which country are you from

[Opinion Owner]

I'm about two decades older than you, and from South-East Europe (Balkans).

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for MHO

[SAMI_DABBAB]

Is it just finding or do you not know how to get them to be your girlfriend? More details can go a long way

[Iamcoming]

I can meet her. But ı am unsuccesful for love relationships

[SAMI_DABBAB]

You mean you guys talk but nothing ever happens right?

[Iamcoming]

Yeah ıt's same

[SAMI_DABBAB]

If you had to make a guess, which do you think is a bigger reason, the way you talk or the way you look? (Can’t say both)

[Iamcoming]

Because of my look. I'm short with only 164 cm heigh

[SAMI_DABBAB]

Height is not a problem for women, they do prefer taller guys but it doesn’t mean they don’t like someone just because they’re not too tall.

Anyways now aside from those who will not be interested purely because of looks, how are things when you are talking to women? Do you feel you are able to present yourself well? Or is there also a problem there?

[Iamcoming]

In my country, womans like tallest guys.

[SAMI_DABBAB]

Which country is that? I’m very curious now

[Iamcoming]

Turkey

[SAMI_DABBAB]

I lived there for 6 years, did my undergrad there, 2 of my exes were Turkish and I’m not really tall 🎶

[Kaneki05]

Well even if you find one, they'll leave so it is pointless

[In_Trance]

You have to figure out what you're not doing, and start doing it. You also need to walk away from the things you're doing that clearly aren't working

[Abbycado]

Where are you going to meet girls?

[Iamcoming]

I'm student of üniversity

[Abbycado]

Same here. It should not be hard to meet people at a university. Get involved in activities on campus.

[Iamcoming]

I can meet but nobody does not like me

[Abbycado]

And we are supposed to magically fix this? I don't even know anything about you. So, it is impossible to even know what you are doing wrong.

Best advice I can give is to really sit and be critical of yourself and try and determine what needs to change. It isn't easy to do, but you are the only one that knows what the potential issues are.

[Iamcoming]

I'm short with only 164 cm heigh. İn my opinion girls does not like me because of my look.