Am I self sabotaging?

[Anonymous]

He's 23 almost 24 and I am 28 almost 29. And I just feel like he's got a lot of life to live and I feel like he will get bored of me. I just dont think two people can be together a long time and stay loyal and such.

Maybe I am just better off alone? Am I wrong for thinking this way? Is this what an average 23 or 24 year old wants?

[Anonymous]

Sounds like it. What brought you to this conclusion? I’ve been w my wife for about 20 years now, she’s 8 years older than me. Of these are your concerns then you need to talk to him. Let him decide. Sure, god willing he has a long life ahead of him. But maybe he doesn’t want to spend it being drunk, running around, sleeping w numerous women. Was there something that happened in your past w an ex cheating on you or something?

[Alex-Snow]

It is only 5 years difference, I do not see it as an issue. The important thing is do you care for (and maybe love) each other. Are you two sexually compatible?

[Kaneki05]

What? Of course you are. That's barley a difference at all

[slatyb]

Yes, you are self-sabotaging. The age difference is trivial. Have you considered counseling?

[Cleatchaser1]

You believing that doesn't make it true.

[Twalli]

You're self-sabatoging.