Is it easier to find a good girl or a good guy?

[Telekinetic-Potato]

My friends girlfriend is saying it's easier for men to find a good woman than it is for a woman to find a good guy. And now everyone is arguing 😂

I thought it was kinda funny this came up at my friend's birthday after I asked my other question on here.

[RavVid]

I think good men are more plentiful than good girls. By good I mean a person who makes promises/vows and keeps them. Honors the deal.

To a large degree this is due to the different nature of men and women. Women are more inclined to break rules than men are at a trivial level. In a crowded car park you are waiting for a car to exit. It is yours right? But another car whips in and takes it. It'll be a woman driver.

Women will chortle over breaking rules to their advantage and are very pleased at getting away with it. Evolution made women more social and to seek advantage to themselves by subtly manipulating others. When they fight it is aimed at excluding others. Politically this is seen in the feminization of politics with cancel culture.

Sexually women get quite excited by other women cheating and their own cheating.

Every woman says women are good as a matter of doctrine. It could be your friends girlfriend is genuinely a good girl and looks at other women through her own glasses. That is pretty normal psychology.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

"Good people" are, partially, subjective notions anyway. This reminder should ensure a cease-fire and put back belligerents on the right tracks.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I want you to know it makes me angry this comment will not be recognized for what a top tier response it really is.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

In fact, fuck it

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Lol np

[MissSunshine2]

I think with the rise of technology and hook up culture, it’s probably equally hard for good men and good women to find decent partners.

[MrChinaski]

Everybody talks about the rise of hookup culture. It simply hasn't risen. There are hard, pun intended, data. Sure people are hooking up more than they did in the 1950s, if that's what you mean, but not when compared with say the 1990s. It's an urban myth.

[MissSunshine2]

@MrChinaski I wasn’t a teenager or adult in the nineties and I’m talking about the seventies and eighties.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I find most people are good 😊

[OneViewpoint]

She's one woman speaking from her own limited experience and whining about her own choices. Go find any guy the same age and you may get the male version of her butthurt whining.

Just like looks the human population is a normal distribution curve when it comes to "goodness. There's 25% that are scumbags at the far left bottom of the curve. There's 10% exceptional people at the far right top of the curve. And 65% of us fall somewhere in the middle of the curve.

Add to that the fact that morality and ethics are flexible and situational for all of us whether you want to admit that or not and yeah, it takes some work to sort out the people you want around you.

Welcome to adult life.

[aaron13547]

Its easier when we find the good in ourselves first. It Has nothing to do with gender. Just like your coincidence, all is mind. Our thoughts literally create the world we live in.

The first thing man did in the garden of eden when asked why he ate the apple was blame eve... eve blamed a snake. We have to take responsibility for our actions not blame another. Blame ourselves, and we become better, blame another and we become "worse".

Its only possible to find a truly good person when we are able to be a truly good person first.

[queenofcardio]

I think I agree with your friend. Although being good is subjective because it depends on the individual.

[MrChinaski]

Good people are everywhere; great people, even, are abundant. You can walk past 100 of them every day without even meeting your exercise goals. Finding a life partner among them is harder. But it's worth the effort.

[HighValue]

Much easier to find a good man because there are more of them. There is a very small percentage of women that are actually good because MOST of them have terrible morals.

[Mastergirl]

It's easier to find a good man. Coming from a bisexual woman.

[molonski2]

Much easier to find a " good " guy , the vast majority of " good " and productive girls are long gone.

[NathanDavis]

I've never had issues with girls like that, however... I've never looked for a man, so I wouldn't really know which one is easier

[ironsteelbirade]

Depends where you are man. Most people are intentionally horny. Someone said it is however, harder for men to biologically not cheat than woman.

[ironsteelbirade]

Some take this as woman that cheat being morally worse than men that do.

[Xoirwinkan]

The thing about these arguments is that women always argue for the women's side and men for the men's side, which isn't beneficial to anyone. How about just not going for the OF girls or the Andrew Tate style guys.

[Horsegirly2001]

Today id say good guy. Any good girl is taken.

[Anonymous]

Hard to find anyone decent nowadays 😔😉
And even harder to have anyone have their own place for - cohabitating or even for fun 😈 friends with benefits even is hard lol

"Your place or mine" laughter as neither has lol 🏠 🏡

[Miristheiss]

A guy.

There are pretty much no virtuous women left.

[Anonymous]

guys just want to sleep around... girls actually want love

[HighValue]

Not even close. It is definitely the other way around and so many women being promiscuous and having terrible morals is the MAIN reason for lack of successful long term relationships for the last 40 + years.

[Opinion Owner]

@HighValue

men sleep around wayy more than women.

promiscuous men can never date women with low body count.

[Kingofkings1992]

Both genders have individuals who want love AND those who want to sleep around. Gender is totally irrelevant in this equation. Let's be fair here, okay? It is not like one gender is all good and the other is all bad

[Opinion Owner]

@Kingofkings1992

you just can't admit men tend to sleep around way more than women.

[Kingofkings1992]

There's nothing to admit dear, because that's not the truth. It's just your myopic view of reality, and nothing else

[HighValue]

A small number of men sleep around a lot, but the MAJORITY of women sleep around some. (Casual sex and cheating is far more common among women.) Why do you think there is so much paternity fraud and most women are against mandatory DNA tests at birth? They are also against criminal charges for fraud, theft, spousal abuse, and child abuse when those women are caught too. The MAJORITY of women are morally corrupt and most of them are supportive of other women's immoral behavior, that is why they stay friends with cheaters too.

[Opinion Owner]

@Kingofkings1992 @highvalue

No one is gonna fall for your lies...

[Telekinetic-Potato]

😂 🫣🫣🫣

[Anonymous]

It doesn't matter, I'm looking for a bad girl ;)

[Tomislav7]

If everyone sees u as a fag then you either go gay or stick to porn

[Anonymous]

Good guy. Most women these days are delusional narcissistic people who ere never taught how to treat their men. The only gender that is taught how to treat the opposite gender is men.

[Kingofkings1992]

Both are easy to find. The people who don't find them are too blind to see that it's their own poor choices that got them where they are... and not because the opposite gender sucks.

[blackeagle007]

Meeting in general is tough. Matching is hard, we all have different tastes, wants. Etc

[msc545]

I think it's easier to find a good guy, although I'm not into guys romantically.

[Tungi]

A good guy, men get a bad wrap but are nicer than women

[Zionne]

a good girl is easier

[Kingofkings1992]

No...

[Telekinetic-Potato]

@Kingofkings1992 I just want to say, I knew this would happen

[Gabriel-Chicanito]

Good girls? I ain't ever known any (!).