Is it easier for a guy to get a girl or a girl to get a guy?

[chris_987]

[DishLady]

Depends who you ask, obvi. MOST guys will complain "ooooh, woe is me... (my type of) girls are tough to get..." and most girls will make the same complaint. However a few guys/gals find it easy to GET a person... though they don't know how to KEEP the person. (Food for thought...)

[chris_987]

Logistically speaking what does it take for a guy to get a girl and what does it take for a girl to get a guy?

[DishLady]

I don't think I should comment on ALL guys/gals bc there are different quality people and they want different things. If they're just hunting for fresh meat you just need to have a nice figure and boom... that's it, you're on their radar. If it's someone who wants something substantial you need to know their personality and expectations.

[chris_987]

I don't think that answer my question

[Anonymous]

Generally I feel like it's easier for a girl to get a guy, I'm not talking about a permanent relationship just maybe a date.

This is influenced by how attractive someone is, and whether or not their personality is good.

Men have a secret third option of having money, which lowers the bar. Women generally have an easier time if they don't already have kids, which nixes how frequently they can go on dates (they'd need a babysitter).

In general, women are usually the arbiters who say Yes or No.
Men can accomplish the same thing, but they must be comfortable enough to accept at least twenty or more rejections in a row without losing heart.

[slatyb]

No, it's equal. It depends on the number of single men and single women in a location. Where there are more men, it's easier for women; when there are more women, it's easier for men. If you are single and don't want to be, consider moving to a place where there are more of the opposite sex.

[Anonymous]

It's easier for a girl to get the guy but that doesn't necessarily mean she can keep him. I feel like the guy may have much more trouble to get a girl but once he does, he pretty much will keep her.

[chris_987]

Logistically speaking what does it take for a guy to get a girl and what does it take for a girl to get a guy?

[Opinion Owner]

Looks for the girl, money for the guy... it's that simple.

[chris_987]

I would say looks for the girl confidence for the guys. Plenty of rich dudes can't get the girl they want

[Anonymous]

I think it's easier for girl to get a guy. But don't know how to keep them around.
And mostly the guy they get is the issue.
But I also think women makes more fun of men cause many of us never get any chance, and mostly all girls can get someone.(I never got a single chance )
From my perspective
PLEASE THESE ARE MY EXPERIENCES FROM A LENSE.
I have seen 4 relationships, girls got the guy, one ended really easily but they got back together (on off) they are in living in relationship but he doesn't want to marry her and she wants to marry him.
He insulted her in front of our whole group.
2nd one was the best one I think, both good, but after 5 years of relationship, guy had anger issues and avoiding her cause he might cause some issues (both are happy broken up)
3rd one was funny, she called him one night, slept with him and then went into relationship, within a week he just left cause he was playing, we all (our whole group told her before hand that is not what he looks, and he will just have sex and leave you).
4th was worst, after 4 years of relationship he proposed but she declined and we all found out the she was cheating, matter of fact he was cheating as well and both of them with eachother's friends.

[seeyounexttuesday]

girl to get a guy - hands down.