If I get lots of first dates but no second dates, is it my fault or just luck?

[Anonymous]

Or is it luck and looks?

It’s something in his control which he can fix

It’s something not in his control like looks or just luck

[HighValue]

Question: Do you pay for the date? If yes, you are just getting used for a free meal and entertainment. That is very common. That is why men should NOT pay for the date. Each person should contribute.

[Anonymous]

Probably just luck.

There are a lot of women out there that are just "greeners" (always just looking for greener pastures). And women who are just serial daters. Some of them will actually text future dates while at their current date.

You have to get really adept at determining quicker which of these women are worth your time and money and cutting the rest off.

I'm sorry to say that that is the reality of dating as a male today.

[MissSunshine2]

I'm honestly not sure, as I've never seen a picture of you or met you,. It could be either, both, or just random bad luck.

[Nikki1989]

Luck might explain an occasional miss. A pattern usually means something specific is happening.

[Asker]

That’s what I’m thinking but I’m having trouble identifying what it is. Usually if I get any feedback, it’s just no chemistry

[4ngelic]

if you have no problem getting first dates, just follow ups, it's probably your personality not your looks.

[Abbycado]

Unless you can point to something that might be causing it, probably luck or lack thereof.

[Jeff51]

What did you do to not get 2nd dates? Did you stare at her? Made weird comments? Keep trying.

[Asker]

I don’t think I do any of that

[Jeff51]

We dont know either. You after keep trying tho

[Anonymous]

It's probably just luck. You can't control it.

[Anonymous]

It's luck my man
It's luck 👀😈🌹

[Opinion Owner]

God bless ya for future successes with the ladies - decent good ladies