Do you think it works in my favor if a woman tells me that she finds that guys don’t want to commit?

[Anonymous]

we met at an event in person although right now she lives rather far from me, but she’s planning on moving soon, but she’s not exactly sure where she’s going. She might still be 1000 miles away, or she could be three hours away or an hour and a half away. So yeah. I’m also not planning on staying where I am forever. She’s coming back to my neck of the woods in a couple of weeks so I already asked her to have a date then. I figured it’s just a few weeks we can bridge that. I’ll text sometimes and maybe we’ll have another video. Call or two.

anyway, during our first video call She told me that that’s been a problem for her. And I think she seems pretty great so I don’t know why a guy wouldn’t want to commit to her. But do you think that will work in my favor if I continue to show interests? And she seems like she’s open based on how receptive she’s been so far. I mean not to put the carriage for the horse, but yeah, like 100% this is the type of woman I could see myself with.

[Anonymous]

I think a woman that says that is a🚩. Her dating woes are NOT you problem. And she should NOT be making them your problem. Think about it man. If this is how things start, they're only going to get worse from here.

Being positive is dating 101 for a woman. If she's not positive from the jump it's only going to get worse.

[WhitneySnow]

Be patient, don’t try and sleep with her right away, and you’ll already be better than 90% of the guys she’s gone out with.

[Nikki1989]

Not necessarily, but most men are flaky at the best of times. Don't be like them. Be one of the good ones.

[Asker]

I mean, the idea is when we have a proper date in person and it goes well. I will suggest to her that I could come and spend a few days wherever she is or we could meet somewhere and explore it together.

We’ve met in person, although not for a very long time, and now we’ve changed some text and we’ve had one video call. So I assume we’ll have one or two more in the next few weeks and then the date.

[queenofcardio]

Sounds like it will work for you. Good luck !

[Abbycado]

I think it would if you show that you can commit, something she is looking for.

[Anonymous]

Depends on what kind of guys she likes.