When girls complain about online dating because the guys don't wanna commit, is that because they're choosing the guys who don't wanna commit?

[Anonymous]

Yes, it's because of the guys the girls are choosing

No, these girls struggled are valid. The guys on dating apps don't want to commit

[Lionman95]

I would say yes and no. Yes because those are often the guys that girls choose. No because guys that don´t want to commit are in the majority on dating apps. Since there are two groups of them: There are guys that are attractive and don´t want to commit and there are guys that are looking average or under-average and just want to find sex on a dating app but they are actually not looking for a relationship.
So the guys that want a relationship have it harder because they have to do and show more to prove their genuine intentions.

[Likes2drive]

They are choosing the players, they probably pick the hottest guys that can get any woman that’s why those guys don’t commit, if they pick an average guy they would get a commitment from them

[LazerBean]

It's because guys who commit are not attracted to them, just like when guys complain about not being able to get good women it's because good women are not attracted to them.

[Asker]

So your theory is that the people who complain about this problem are not good enough for the people they want, and the people they want are the good ones?

[LazerBean]

As a general rule, yes.

[virtualwasp]

i like this question. im not sure online dating is realistic.

[Asker]

Yeah, I heard that there's a lot of happily married people who say that they wouldn't have swiped right on the spouse on online dating

[Flower7]

Guys on dating apps are usually looking for sex.