Is it really easier for women to get a guy than for men to get a girl?

[Anonymous]

I know it's not a fair comparison, but I think it is somewhat like that.

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2 mo

Are all women complaining about finding good guy, when they keep dating useless one's? U know right good guys will avoid women with multiple relationship?

[Lesbologist]

Make a profile on a dating site as yourself... and then make a profile of the ugliest chick you can find online. There is a clear difference between which one will get 100's of hits a day and the other that might get 2 a day if you lift weights all day and say you have a huge income.

My woman and I did that together, each with our own set, and with others for a college project... gathering data. Yes it's fucking true. It's not just fucking true, it's like 50X true. That was the literal math. That means if you're hawt as fuck as a guy and get 1 match, a chick that is the equivlent of you but female got 50 matches. You get 2, she gets 100.

[Asker]

True, I have done this test as well
Any dating site, app, I have literally posted a anime girl profile and I got 7 matches with in an hour.

[Lesbologist]

Yeah, it's fucking crazy. I also think that's why the women have become so fucking picky.

[Anonymous]

Yes.

But CONVERSELY it's much harder for a woman to KEEP a guy than for a man to keep a woman. Woman got that 🐱 power. But it's typically a one shot deal and women know it. Which is why so many reserve it (to quote Courtney Love, "they get what they wsnt (men) and they never want it again). Men on the other hand know it's hard to win favor with a woman. But once he's got her she's not going to want to let go. This is why men can (if he's so inclined to) cheat on her, borrow money, walk on her a bit. Because he knows at that point she doesn't want to break the bonds she's built with him, and THINKS he's built with her.

Of course everything I've listed is hyperbole. There's varying degrees to everything and everyone.

[HollyK21]

O feel like you can’t make comparisons about who gets more what without making a broad generalization. We are all individuals within our genders and we are all privy to having an easier or better time dating than the next person.

[HollyK21]

**I feel

[CindyRuns]

Getting a guy... easy !!!

Getting a QUALITY GUY... Really hard, they're real unicorns... I'm so glad I found one and married him.

[Asker]

Lol 😂 I feel that is true.
Not everyone is good with too much kindness

[Asker]

What are your criteria for a relationship or marriage kinda guy.
Cause I want to get married to the person I will date (I have never dated cause never got a successful date)

[NathanDavis]

a lot of men are easy...

a lot of women are more selective

women would know where and how to find those men who will easily say yes...

men often like to go after the ones they know they can't get...

it's not a gender thing... you'll find either case and vice versa too, lol

[4ngelic]

for sex & casual dating yes, actual relationships no. ironically what each gender wants most is harder for them to get.

[Asker]

For someone like who's end goal is to get married or have a long relationship, I never got a yes for that.
Or even short term.
I never understood the criteria. Many women said the said the same thing.
What were your criteria for relationship worthy guy.

[Nikki1989]

Men are easy enough to get. Finding a quality man that you can seriously have a future with is the challenging part.

[Asker]

I don't think,
for me future is everything.
I want to have a future.
But due to double standards I am never considered to date.
I feel I can see a future with most of the women I meet. But I guess I am not the same in there mind.

[Asker]

It's very rare that I won't want to get married with someone.

[Asker]

From my perspective it's like the guys who play safe are generally not attractive, they don't have fancy clothes or any attractive quality.
And women generally ignore them like they are invisible 🫥.
Men generally don't do that. Unless you have done something to hurt there egos.

[Asker]

It's my pinhole, naive assumption, and perspective.

Take it as someone who only got 2 dates in whole life.
And never got close enough to even kiss

[Wodens_Apprentice]

No you women just have absurd standards. You want to be forcibly kidnapped by vampires & werewolves yet constantly deny it cause you can't even be honest with yourselves.

[Anonymous]

Of course it is, but finding a real down to earth genuine man is like finding a needle in a haystack.

[karlaatsd]

I don't know about the same lol never thought about it

[rini02]

I think yes...

[Anonymous]

A bit simplistic but generally yes

[jahaims]

Are you new to reality?

[FunkyMonkee]

Yes!!

[exitseven]

yes, no contest.

[msc545]

Much easier.

[In_Trance]

Yes it is