How do you know if women genuinely like you when you have money?

[Anonymous]

10 years ago I was broke as hell.

Now I make $7000 a month, by my own developed software online.

10 years ago, when I was 23, I was very lonely. Now I have 50+ girls in my contacts.

[OneViewpoint]

Hey, they didn't see any future in a broke guy 10 years ago. SURPRISE! And now they see potential in a guy who has done something with his life and seems to have goals and a plan. Does that make women gold diggers? No, it makes them NOT STUPID. Yeah, you got some money. Not serious money yet. But you seem to have a future. How you changed your situation also changed how others view you. You became more interesting, you gained life experience. Probably some self discipline. Probably some confidence in yourself. It's probably not just the money women are responding to. Stop worrying and enjoy being successful.

[Taurus_Woman]

To be honest, money is important. Nobody wants to live a poor life in a world where everything costs money. Financial stability does make life easier and can attract attention. But !!! It’s still important to see whether people genuinely like you for you, not just for what you can provide. Real interest shows in consistency, respect, and how they treat you when money or benefits aren’t the main focus.

Money matters, but it’s not the only factor. Other things like shared values also matter a lot. Real interest is usually a mix of these things, not just financial status.

You need to find someone who loves you fully. Yes, money can attract people, but real connection also comes from trust, respect, emotional bond, and genuine care for who you are as a person.

Not 50+ girls, focus on fewer people and keep only those you genuinely trust and feel a real connection with.

[Pohjolan]

Maybe don't flaunt your wealth? Don't be stingy either but pick her up in a mazda instead of a ferrari and take her to some sushi buffet instead of a expensive restaurant.

[LiamS95]

That's kind of sad. So they only like you for your money?

[In_Trance]

Ask them