Has this breakup destroyed me forever?

[Anonymous]

I dated this girl from a small ethnic community of people I come from. She looks so unique and is the prettiest girl I’ve ever seen she has green eyes (pretty damn rare). Stunning in my eyes. I look at insta models and am like they can’t compare!

She went from being obsessed with me to getting overwhelmed and dropping me like a hot potato.

I met her parents she met mine, all in 3.5 months. We stayed overnight with each other, talked for hours a day, had s*x with each other once which was a disaster as it was so awkward and I didn’t get to f her good.

I was shocked she let me go as I am exceptional too and I was good to her but there were some lessons I had to learn. I do think she was a bit unstable inside. We also got on like a house on fire and I felt a connection to her.

I don’t know if I can do better! She also came out of nowhere

This is truly shattering

No this is fine - don’t stress it

[ammar12343]

Just enjoy it for it was. You experienced the infatuation stage with her. That stage always feels so great. You’re on cloud nine when it happens. If you dated her for longer you’d actually see her for who she is with flaws and not be nearly obsessed. You saw the image she wanted you to see. You created a fantasy of her on top of that. All of that subsides through time. Just recognize it for what it is. You enjoyed it, that’s why it hurts. She had a good time too. Move on. Don’t be melodramatic. This won’t destroy you. We as men will go through this a couple times in our life.

[BadApple69]

This is life. Yes I like green eyes too but they are just eyes not the whole package.
Eye color, hair color even skin color can be an attractant. But none of those things make a good relationship. Personality, and comparability do.

[Anonymous]

People get overwhelmed, especially girls. She may come back. It’s also possible the sex was so bad it ruined her fantasy of being with you.

[Asker]

So she thought initially I was amazing in bed because I could make her cum so gassy and multiple times, but one time we had sex at the end and it was a disaster

[Opinion Owner]

Oh. Then it sounds like you had some pretty good sex and one bad time. That probably didn’t drive her off. More likely she just got overwhelmed. She may come back, but even if she doesn’t it doesn’t mean she didn’t have feelings for you.

[Asker]

When I said I could make her cum so easily it was from fingering her, we used to just jacks each other off. She was impressed with my penis size.
Then towards the end we were arguing and we had sex for the first time and it was a total disaster, I also met the brother earlier that day and like a couple days later she stopped replying to me well. Then I knew something serious was to come.

We broke up and she gave me loads of reasons, she was also hugging me and even kissed me.

What do you think?

[Asker]

She put a lot of pressure on me like omg when we have sex it’s gonna be crazy. She even said that a lot of the time she thinks people stay in relationships because the sex is good.

We were arguing over those couple weeks about a lot of petty things and some important things like living arrangements

[Opinion Owner]

That’s fine! Fingering still counts 😊

I think she still may come back, but even if she doesn’t you have wonderful memories of her.

I have to go. Good luck!

[Asker]

I also noticed when I met the brother he was a bit cold to me I dunno

[Anonymous]

What do u mean do better? How do u both look

[Asker]

It’s not like I can attach photos

[Opinion Owner]

Like describe , whe she’s that good

[_Jenny_]

You will get over it

[Asker]

I am slowly starting to feel a bit better

[_Jenny_]

I hope I have helped you 💯💕

[Catsandpies]

Hope you get over her soon damn it🥺