Why do men ask for something casual but get upset when I act casual about it?

[Anonymous]

I’ve recently had this issue of men only wanting a physical relationship, then getting mad when I don’t prioritize seeing them. I just don’t get it.

[OlderAndWiser]

You don't get it because you are not a man, so you don't think or feel like a man,

These guys want to possess you so that you are available at all times and will tell them how wonderful they are and what a good dick they have, but they also want the freedom to be fucking other girls. MOST men are not that way, but I have known a few.

[BadApple69]

They get casual sex and they want more and more casual sex. Then get upset when they don’t get the free sex they want. That’s the issue. When men aren’t paying for it they don’t respect it. You are like the sex toy in their drawer. They want to pull you out, use you and put you back in the drawer. But when they try to use their sex toy and the batteries are dead they get pissed.
Sorry so blunt but people in general care for things more when they worked for it. Not when it’s handed to them.

[Anonymous]

Because you aren’t giving them what they want and they are being babies.

[Anonymous]

For the same reason that women want attention, feeling of love, effort, etc. But then get upset when it's contingent on the anount of physical affection HE's recieves.

It's ok to think the world should work a certain way. Or think that people should be a certain way. So long as you realize that's NOT reality, that's your OPINION. And regardless, your opinion does not magically become reality no matter how much you want it to.👍

[AngryCarl3]

Because they want to be casual. What they don't want is for YOU to be casual.

[_Jenny_]

That’s what it’s like being a woman

[jahaims]

People who want casual aren't emotionally healthy.

[MasterKS]

its how things runs.