Girls, is he a Green flag or not?

[Hell_boy]

[Lliam]

How old was I when I
Kissed - 14
Drank - 14
Smoked - I tried cigarettes when I was 14 but didn't like them.
Had sex - 16 with my first girlfriend.
Used drugs - 16
Watched porn - in my early 30s after VHS became available. (There was no such thing as internet yet)
Sent nudes - never.
Got a tattoo - ne
Fell in love - I had long-term, monogamous, infatuated relationships from the time I was 16, but fell truly and deeply in love with one particular girlfriend when I was 36. I fell in love again with my future wife when I was 40.

Unless a girl was a teen ager, I would think it odd if she never had sex, let alone been kissed. I would assume that she had religious, cultural or mental/emotional issues and deep inhibitions.

[capriVib]

If this chart belonged to a woman, I'd say it's 100% a green flag.

But "fell in love: never," "had sex: never," and "kissed: never" stand out. After a certain age, many women would see this and consider it a red flag, because men are often expected to take the lead and perform in romantic relationships. To do that, they need to understand women emotionally and socially. Many women also expect a man to have at least some relationship experience.

[MrChinaski]

The last part in particular. Yeah, it's cool to find out how relationships work together when you're 17. When you're 25 or 30 it's like teaching grade school.

[capriVib]

@MrChinaki

I felt the need to add an update to this.

Sometimes when you ask women in conservative societies how they view a 25 or 30 year old man with no relationship experience, they'll often say things like, "He's a good, clean man," or "I'd marry someone like that."

However, when you ask the same question in less conservative societies, inexperienced men are often viewed much more negatively.
This leaves me confused. I'm not entirely sure what to believe. Part of me wonders whether some conservative women say they prefer inexperienced or virgin men because it's the socially acceptable answer, while deep down they might actually be more attracted to experienced men.

At least in less conservative societies, people tend to be more direct about their preferences. In conservative societies, however, I sometimes think that what they say publicly remains theoretical, and when it comes to practice, they often end up doing the exact opposite of what they claimed. I generally suspect this can be quite a hypocritical action.

[Nikki1989]

That is a huge RED FLAG unless you are a prude seeking to control a female.

[Hell_boy]

Explain pls

[OneViewpoint]

You're not pure of heart. You're 10 years behind where you should be in your social development as an adult male and trying to rationalize your failure to launch. It screams "afraid to take a chance" and "can't make decisions", I sit on the sidelines of life. Not exactly the model of masculinity a lot of women are looking for. Not great for career prospects either.

[In_Trance]

How would you feel if you needed to have heart surgery and your surgeon had no experience?
How would you feel boarding a plane knowing the pilot was on his maiden voyage?

Why you think a relationship works any different is beyond me.
Experience matters

[MrChinaski]

Boy needs to get out more.

[MrChinaski]

LMAO. So the guy's tag is medication for high blood pressure...