I need advice on how to get out of a relationship?

[Anonymous]

They are a guy who I feel nothing for. I don’t wanna lead him on because I’m in love with someone else.

It was an arranged relationship and I didn’t want in it because I love a guy name Jordan and I have a bit of feelings for another guy name Tanner.

I need advice to get out of this relationship.

Updates

19 d

The relationship was arranged by my dad, brother and sister n law. They thought it was best for me but all it did was made it worse. It’s my sister n law brother and I can’t like the dude. He isn’t my type in personality or in looks. I just need a breather. I know the guy already in love with me but the issue is I don’t and he keeps contacting me and I told him I don’t want him and I don’t see him that way

[SueShe]

If this relationship was arranged, then it is not very difficult to get out of it. Simply tell the guy that since you are not the one that fell for him but someone else (most likely your parents - I presume you are from India or another country where pre-marriages are arranged by family), then you only need to tell him that you have no feelings for him, never had and never will.

This might cause issues with the people that arranged this relationship but you are an adult and can decide for yourself who you like and whom you want to be in a relationship with.

Try to be diplomatic and not just blurt it out.

[Calyptomaniac]

Seems like you need to take that up with whoever arranged it since you live somewhere that still happens. I won't pretend I understand how that works, but that seems like where to start.

[Iron_Man]

talk to your parents, tell them the truth and talk to the arranged guy and tell him the truth. Problem solved and stand up for yourself

[Danny_dan92]

Uhh… just talk to him and tell him it’s over.




Do not mention the other guy.

[HelpfulWoman_]

Slash him into the pavement and keep the dog, because no matter what he says, he is wrong, toxic, and currently stealing your oxygen.

[Abbycado]

How did you get into a relationship with someone you feel nothing for?

[_Jenny_]

Talk with your parents and tell them that this isn’t going to work out because you have feelings for someone else

[Anonymous]

Just tell him you in love with someone
else and that being honest with him
You wish him happiness with ever he
may choose

[Anonymous]

What’s special in the guy u love