Do men actually care if a woman lives alone, with parents, or in senior housing?

[Anonymous]

I hear stories how woman live alone and it’s normal invite guy she’s dating to her house. Then I hear if you live alone guys won’t take you serious. And that they will only marry you if you live with parents?

and if you live alone then the guy will think you have issues with family and think you have crazy family with drama and be scared.

im 28 and live in a senior apartment , is that a deal breaker for men? Im magically waiting to get married and nothing.
I plan move close to school and job in one month so I’ll be living alone.

[Anonymous]

Honey no most men don’t care if you live alone or w your parents in a senior home. I think if I’m being honest what’s hurting you is your age. I’m not saying that you still couldn’t meet someone. Men just tend to like younger women. You’re closer to 30. So yes I’d advise you to get out more.

[Asker]

Men don’t want marriage or meet family. I never lived with a boyfriend. Seems more realistic get pregnant but can’t be single mom as I’m broke

[Opinion Owner]

Trust me. A lot of men want marriage. They’re just unsure of the women they have to pick from these days. Have you actually gotten out to meet people? Do you have wife like traits?

[Asker]

I never met a guy that wants marriage but I at least want meet family and life together and have accidental pregnancy I don’t want marriage as I don’t love anyone

[Opinion Owner]

So you want to be a single mother?

[Asker]

No but I don’t believe the guys I want will be religious and marry me. I’m seeing one guy already rn.

[Opinion Owner]

Most women want men that don’t want them. Like I said I think it’s partially your age. Are you still a virgin?

[Asker]

No even wen I was younger men were not religious and I dated one guy that wasted my life age 18-24 he used me for sex I thought he was my boyfriend as we dated 5 years but never met family & he said he was single and used me as friends with benefits. I never had a boyfriend before him so I was stupid but still he’s only guy that’s been in my life long term since I left him I can’t find other guy that stays as long as him

[Opinion Owner]

I’m sure you can. You just don’t want a lot of those men. The men you want are the ones that don’t want you. But I almost guarantee tee if you changed your standards on what you’re looking for you’d meet someone.

[Asker]

So dating a guy can still mean he don’t want you?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes he may just be in it for the sex like you said w your first and only boyfriend.

[Asker]

What’s difference as with a husband they only want sex daily? It’s same no?

[Opinion Owner]

Not always. There’s a lot more to it than just sex when it comes to a marriage.

[Anonymous]

That's a little weird to live in a senior apartment at your age. I would have thought you wouldn't have been allowed.

I don't really care where a girl lives. I live with parents, because rent is way too much. I pay for myself and help them, so it is a mutually beneficial relationship.

[Asker]

I’m stuck here as no guy has asked to marry me and hard find a serious relationship.

[Staximus]

How do you live in a senior apartment when you’re not even a retirement age? Isn’t that against the rules?

[Asker]

My parents live here

[dudeinohio]

Living alone means you can take care of yourself. Its actually a good thing.

[Anonymous]

Senior housing?

[Asker]

Yes , you didn’t answer my question do men care where a girl that they date lives?

[Opinion Owner]

Why/how do you live in senior housing? Do you live with a grandparent? I haven't answered because i'm trying to assess your situation. Any decent man is going to do that. Wouldn't you do that with a guy? I think you're looking for a blanket answer. A good man will try to determine you character. Where and how you live might give clues but it doesn't give the full complete story.

[Asker]

Parents live in a senior apt

[Opinion Owner]

Are they seniors?
A quality guy is going to wonder why. But there are MANY reasons a woman may stil live with her parents. As long as none of those reasons suggest she is of low character than it's not a problem.

[Asker]

Becuz my parents say I need get married first then move out but I realized no guy will marry me magically. So I’ll forever be at parents senior apt as I don’t think any guy will marry me I never met a religious guy or had serious relationship

[Asker]

I work full time but barley trying to save I been having car issues past 2 years which is y I never been able save money. I start school August and plan end July move out close to school and my job I work an hour away. I don’t have my own room at moms senior apt so I want my own studio, I can’t be forever til 30-35 neevr having my own room

[Opinion Owner]

Hey, life is hard. Don't beat yourself up if you honestly can look yourself in the mirror and say you're doing your best. You're working full time. It takes a while to get established. I was flat broke at 26. Now i got a high 6 figure net worth. That DIDN'T happen over night! It won't happen over night for you most likely (if it ever does). And i only say "if it ever does" because life comes with many coun flips where things can fall one way or the other. It doesn't mean you failed. My sister had the same upbringing as me and she's went bankrupt twice. It was just the luck of the draw.
As far as guys go, about all you can do is try to be visible. Be approachable. And if guys are NOT approaching you, you MAY have to approach them. But ALWAYS respect yourself. A man should have to at least put in as much effort as you. Nothing worth having ever came easy. Try to remember that. And always remember you're only HALF the equation.

[Asker]

I want be a dentist assistant but the most they make is only $30 an hour or less. But that’s better than minimum wage. So by 30 I shud be graduated and doing that. Move into a nice condo at least

[Opinion Owner]

Nothing wrong with that.

[TonyMetal___86]

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