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I don't want to fall in love i just want someone to send hearts to, kiss gifs, pictures of me, and have intimate conversations with but only at random times
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Is it loneliness if I only want affection and intimacy at random times?
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No what it is is you're finding yourself We Are Spiritual Beings not religious beings but spiritual and with spiritual we are energy everything on this planet is vibrating which makes it energy
And when you start to understand energy and when you can feel energy from other people there is a hundred different types of fillings that that gives you and that one feeling that is kind of a turn on that is kind of a craving that you want to be touched or you want to be talked to in a certain way or you want to experience something it could be loneliness too but it is a higher frequency of energy
And everything in life has a frequency to it love and spiritual is one of the highest frequencies but you have to understand what it really is
When two energies become one or you are hanging around somebody and you both can feel each other's Energies there is a feeling that comes in between you two that just is so beautiful or let's say you start talking to somebody online and through words there's a frequency and energy and you could be melted you could feel that other person's energy and you might want that other person like right now just because of the words or the frequency they're using with you you can walk into a room you can walk up next to somebody and feel that same energy it is a sexual energy it is a spiritual they are about the same frequency I like to role play online and when I do this I can hit that person same frequency and it will turn into one of the most beautiful craziest turn-ons that you will ever feel
I just started laughing to myself because I'm in the middle of doing a couple different things and I'm sure this is not making any sense whatsoever but when you want infection and it becomes a deep desire is because you can feel that energy around you or you can hear that energy and it starts to melt you it starts to send signals throughout your whole body if that's what you want that's what you need whether it's Luminess whether it's you want to have an orgasm it doesn't matter what it is it's what you want but if you know how to control energy or if you understand energy or if you have even felt somebody else's energy you want to know what you want to understand this because it is a guide in your life it will make you feel the most beautiful things ever the most real things ever and then you learn how to read people just by standing next to them like I said this doesn't make any sense probably because I'm scattered everywhere as I'm telling you this but if you ever want to know about energy just DM me or let me know I will try to teach you as best as I can
Not at all , Relationships are a lot of work and a lot of invested time into each other that couples dedicate themselves to, to be together , so in your situation you are probably best to find yourself a FWB’s with some strings attached , so you can have your freedom and still have some of the benefits of and actual relationship. Me personally prefers FWB’s with some strings attached when I meet a beautiful girl I am interested in , mainly because I want to really get to know her before taking it to the next level if it makes it to the next level. Some of FWB’s with some strings attached relationships were the best relationships I ever had with a girl, because we both were on the same page with things and we both had breathing room , there was barely any jealousy or insecurities between us whatsoever because we were just good friends , that enjoyed spending time together here and there. and enjoyed having sex with each other when we got together ,
it works if you do it with someone that is honest, and is on the same page as you are , I am still friends’ with some of them even though we don’t have sex anymore because there was honesty and trust between us. We also made an agreement that we could date other people if we choose to but promises not to have sex with any of them , but if we do, then we promised to end the benefits part and remain friends. So Give it a shot , it might be what you are looking for 😊
Sounds like you want to just be a booty call
I believe affection and intimacy is, mentally, vital. To avoid imbalance.
So I'm saying that what you want is perfectly expected, and a good thing to have. To counter loneliness, yes, that's exactly what I think. And that's a very normal thing to do, in my eyes.
Not necessarily.
Wanting affection, intimacy and emotional connection doesn't automatically mean you're lonely. Most people need some form of connection.
The interesting part is that you don't seem to want a full relationship. You want connection, but only when you feel like it.
That could mean you're protecting your independence, avoiding commitment, recovering from past experiences, or simply not looking for a traditional relationship right now.
I would ask yourself one question:
Do you want a person, or do you want the feeling that person gives you when you're in the mood for connection?
The answer might tell you a lot.
Yes it is. Maybe you need more friends or a friends with benefits situation?
Why would you suggest "more friends with benefits". That culture is exactly why everyone is lonely now.
She sounds like she needs to experiment and learn what she wants for when she meets someone she’s serious about
@MissSunshine2 And by experimenting she builds up a body count and makes herself less appealing as a future man's soul mate.
I disagree. Only men who hate women and fear their sexuality would think that.
@MissSunshine2 That's not true plenty of men way less misogynist-seeming then me say the same thing.
It's related to insecurity that every self respecting man has, because if you slept with dozens of other men that means it's dozens of other men he's now competing against to be special for his wife.
It might not be cheating, but still feels like a bit like getting cuckolded.
This is why women should safe-guard their sexuality more instead of immediately losing their virginity at 18-20 like they always do.
Romance has more weight to it then lust and if your lust is contained for 1 person it makes it more powerful.
Women do not feel completely the same way, unless he's an absolute man-whore with a body count of like 20.
This is because when other women lust for a man she perceives him as a more valuable partner, which makes it more powerful to her if he picks her above the other women.
None of my guy friends say that. I know lots of people, too.
Any man with sense will know he’s special to her because she chose Him to be her last partner.
Why shouldn’t women enjoy sex when that’s what men are doing, before marriage?
@MissSunshine2
Women on average have a lot more sex then men, way before men. The only reason it's equalled out is because of a small percentage of men, but most of the men outside that small percent were likely invisible to you.
In terms of relationships, a lot of the mechanics that work for women, spin in the reverse for men.
It's harsh but it's just the way it is. Why don't you try asking your male friends? I heard a large percent of women have a 🍇 yet you never hear them admit it because they don't want to be perceived as a whore (I would argue being dishonest makes you more of a whore because it's vanity for appearance).
I find that highly disturbing if true. Not knowing that is probably why someone conventionally attractive like me is still a virgin because if I had acted like a pervert women likely would've received it positively rather than negatively.
My point is men aren't gonna admit everything they're into, though they are way more likely to then women there's still likely gonna be things he holds back.
Also men have their flaws too but I don't criticise men as much because I'm guilty of many flaws myself.
The stuff I lack self awareness of I'm hardly able to comment on.
You have to be delusional to believe that you can have sex with multiple men without accumulating tons of baggage and becoming jaded. There are tons of studies proving that oxytocin is finite and premisciois people can’t form bonds. Women are free to have all the sex they want but men are smart for disqualifying promiscuous women for long-term relationships Because it’s guaranteed to jeopardize the success of the relationship. Why invest in someone who can’t bond
@Theunfadeable Yeah those women usually cheat on you anyway and if me are cheated on, they either face the ultimate humiliation or decide to take things into their hands 🥊🔪
Nope to both. I’m a woman myself, so I know exactly how much it affects my chances. Which is not at all. Go back to your mum’s basements and watch your porn.
@MissSunshine2 That's ad hominem cope.
@Wodens_Apprentice It is, but you reap what you sow, looking at how you managed the topic lol
@Maybe_Maybe_not If you reap what you sow, you would be drowning in rice, little guy.
You’ve been beaten Wodens_apprentice. Bow out gracefully like a man.
@Wodens_Apprentice I'm considering eating more rice actually, to shift from the usual pasta and couscous. And I believe I found a type of rice that I can incorporate in my diet: Basmati !
No you should cowtow before me and kiss my boot. Since you blocked my main account that's the ultimate lose.
I specifically have commentary on that account'a comments, pointing out that women are too sensitive which is why they always block people instead of providing arguments.
@Maybe_Maybe_not That's how you become true Asian!
@The_Failed_Alpha Wow, a wizard after a knight, please bring orcs now
@Maybe_Maybe_not No because orcs are what everyone rips off Tolkien, who based orcs off Ettins & Dark Elves from English mythology.
Yes the knight Siegfried gains the great divine sky father & god of wisdom's power. When Sigurd/Siegfried (Prince Charming) drinks or bathes in the blood of the dragon Fafnir he gains Woden's (Odin's) power to understand the language of the animals (birds in particular) and trees.
This is linked to Woden sacrificing himself for knowledge, where he lynches himself from the world tree and learns the meaning of runes (representing the capacity to see something as a symbol and "code/program/compute" with it).
A good knight needs a good wizard in his heart.
Uh guys I not sleeping with anyone
Still trying to get over how my ex loves my body more the rest of me
@The_Failed_Alpha ah well, no orcs then, just sock puppets
@Maybe_Maybe_not Yeah you sound like someone who just dismisses European history as backwards & impoverishes whilst floating over Asiatic wealth & exoticism.
Cope and seethe that our ancestors were better at war then yours.
@asker
What's he done that makes you think that?
He broke up with me because I couldn't get retested for covid
We did have break up sex and he said that was it. Less than 2 months later i got sick again and he said he didn't care if he got sick as long as I came over to "cuddle"
That's a poor choice of words. He might've just been spiteful & bitter, but was still offering a way for you in. However breakup sex leads me to think he did just want sex.
Isn't it wonderful men like him get all the pussy and men like me who are actually like romance are invisible to women. Must be because I don't have that rape energy women are proven to be attracted to.
No we had an argument because I said okay to his request and he didn't like that as a response. Later on, he said sorry, but said we should stay "friends"... After the breakup sex, it was almost time for us to leave, so i gave him a hug. He pushed me off and grabbed his key and waited outside to take me home
That's the last time I've had sex. It's been 5 years abstinent
Rape energy?
What request did he make that got him so mad just because you said okay?
"He pushed me off and grabbed his key and waited outside to take me home" he sounds kinda petty or like he has autism, and I don't mean the cool type of autistic.
"Rape energy?"
Yes a high percent (65% in one source and 80%) of women have had a rape fantasy. They also have a tendency to keep social contact with their rapist and not blocking them, which is odd as men like me get blocked by women all the time for just stating a honest opinion (literally happened to me in this thread coincidentally).
I've always liked the idea of protecting women from the savages. But that's now demoralised me so a lot. Plus it turns out the rapey types tens to have more power anyway. Just look at Jeffrey Epstein and P Diddy. They were ugly goblins were more successful in every way then me, who is worthless & has no friends.
I know it to be true because in the past I had more success "flirting" when I'm trolling someone, then when I've actually had a crush on someone. So women are definitely attracted to abuse more then anything chivalric.
He asked me to get a retest for covid before coming around him
I already told him that the doctor said no and sent me back home so when he still wanted me retested before being around him, I just said ok
Sounds awkward and I wouldn't bother with the test personally.
Well it was 2021 they still had to report every covid case and by law if you were sick you had to stay in the house for 2 weeks, so that's why the doctor said no... the test could have given me a false positive and restarted quarantine and an investigation , + it would have messed up the data
During the lockdowns I didn't take any vaccines or tests. After all this time you gotta get over that breakup as your capacity to have a family doesn't last forever. Men won't love you immediately and still go for looks. Younger women look better then older women.
Im not having kids
Im not looking for a relationship right now
If they want younger women so be it
That's not the right approach and is the dark rabbit hole most western women are jumping down, only to end up more depressed later because they can't have the man of their dream and realise their stupid soulless career isn't as fulfilling as having a family you love.
That is the path which the Goddess Frīge punishes through loneliness as though it were weaved into the fabric of reality itself.
Nah that's not loneliness. That's a complete lack of passion. An empty personality. A couch potato viewing life from the sidelines.
That’s ok but you need to find someone with the same affection drive as you
Snow is beautiful, Kremhild.
it means you just want affection. And most likely you have suffered some type of trauma from relationships/ love in the past which is why you want affection but not genuine connection.
I think a lot of people desire the positives of a relationship without a commitment. Relationships are difficult and take work, time, and care. For some, they simply lack the interest to do that. If you want something casual, that is up to you.
Work, time, care, sweat, tears, and in the worst case, blood. Or nothing of the aforementioned, when things go smoothly, but it's rare lol
Maybe you should take the first step with a random person
No. Being lonely has nothing to do with that. You want someone to be in love with you.
No that's just your autism speaking. Find yourself a good man.
*yes it is loneliness. No don't have that attitude, you might regret it later when you become less attractive.
No, your hormones are out of balance.
Fix your diet
No hun, that's called "self absorbed".
So you're looking for somebody to talk with have sex with but not being loved with them
No, it is just being normal.
*No it really is not.*
Why would that be loneliness?
Sometimes that's all we need
It's immaturity, insecurity and baggage
Affection and Intimacy
Yes it is