Are women misguided about what really attracts men in relationships?

[jennifer_bloom]

I know average looking women that believe they need to work extra hard to charm a man into choosing them over other women and they often achieve that through unnecessary action or behaviour.

Men prefer depth over superficial lustre. Because when you are rich or intelligent, there are literally tons of equally attractive and equally easy woman interested in you.

Women are sometimes ignorant of the fact men would rather have consistency, than superficial charm, since a billion other women also have superficial charm.

[sawno]

Some definitely are on this site, they become the things they want in a man and then expect we want the same stuff. You see a question that has stuff like "I have a good career" but them struggeling to find a guy. Most guys got the career part down themselves so they don't care. They need someone with different qualities to themselves to fill in the gaps of the stuff they can't do for a family.

[AngryCarl3]

If a woman has to work hard at that stuff she is probably missing something.

[AngryCarl3]

Thanks for MHO!

[BludgeonedBoi]

You're definitely on the right track! For some reason, most women are trying way too hard to woo a man when what he really wants is respect and being treated like a normal person. A lot of this trying too hard comes off really obnoxious and off putting, as if she is really looking for attention towards herself. Men prefer authenticity over vain actions

[Smileygirl2000]

Yes , extremely and men are apart of this problem

[beenherebefore]

I think so.