Is it a red flag if your man or woman is disliked or seems to have issues with a number of people?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No maybe the people around them are just not for them

[Anonymous]

Disliked, no. Have issues with other people, possibly.

Having haters can just be a sign that you stand for something in life. Some people just hate other people that they cannot bully, manipulate or control. Now having issues with other people is another story. Someone may not like you. But generally once the realize and eventually accept you stand on business and will not back up, they'll leave you alone. However if the continuing drama, either your partner has chosen an unusually sweet lolipop of crazy dipped in psycho to inhabit her/his lifw at aome point. Or the person you've chosen as a partner is not the quality partner they're pretending to be. They have the wool pulled over your eyes. Pull on strings till you can discern which it is.

[HighValue]

No. Maybe the other people are jerks or have bad morals so they don't get along. For example, if you watch the last season of Outlast, Sarah seemed really cool in my opinion, bot almost nobody liked her and people kept messing over her. Sometimes people just aren't liked or aren't compatible with others, even if they are good people.

[objective_calendar]

An average person (unlike a controversial figure) normally shouldn't have that many people who hate them that it's something worth to mention. It's okay to not be liked by everyone. However being disliked in general does indicate an underlying issue.

Usually along the way you'll gain a few people who will "hate" you because they won't be able to stand you no matter what you do. But that's not concerning.

[Soapsoaplady]

It doesn't mean necessarily that there's something wrong with them. They can have unpopular opinions or values. That putts lot of people off but it doesn't mean there's something wrong with them.

[Veronika_p]

I honestly don't think so, some people are naturally misunderstood by a higher number of people

[strateguy632]

that would exclude everyone. who is liked by everyone?

[Calyptomaniac]

No. If there is something causing all that, I will be able to figure it out for myself.

[Nikki1989]

It could mean something or it might mean nothing at all.

[AngryCarl3]

One person could be an asshole with a grudge. Several indicates a problem.

[DishLady]

It could be. Not necessarily.

[lilBigPotato]

Entirely depends on the reason.