Is it a red flag if your friend and your partner don’t get along?

Anonymous
My friend got into a relationship a few months ago and ever since, has put me on the back burner. She and I would make plans to hangout, but she’d take her partner along (uninvited). Or she’d always have her partner stay over (we are also roommates). I talked to her about how I felt left out, and she took that as me saying that I don’t like her new partner, which isn’t true. I’ve had fun hanging out with her and her partner, but sometimes I’d rather just hanging with my friend.
Anyway, I told her many times how I felt, but she still thinks that I either don’t like her partner or that I’m jealous (which I am not). I think her partner is telling her that I don’t like her (the partner) and that I’m “jealous” of their relationship, because her partner has blocked me on every social media platform.
Is it a red flag if your friend and your partner don’t get along?
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