When did you finally realize your partner wasn’t ‘the one’ and why?

[Anonymous]

I realized mine wasn't the one when I realized he was emotionally turbulent, was self indulgent, had no conflict resolution skills, terrible over spender, terrible communicator, not a listener, and couldn't handle criticism. All deal breakers for me.

[Anonymous]

When i learned we were not equally yoked. She was raised Christian so i just assumed she was. But she started getting all new age religion on me and that was the beginning of the end. I still care about her, and i hope she finds her way back to Christ. But any woman i'm in a relationship with has to have Christ at the center of it or it's not going to work. She's a good person, but this is something i cannot do for her.

[DirtyOldMan777]

first date. at my age, I have to be. this is what I need can you provide? yes or no. weeds them out fast.

[Anonymous]

That guy sounds like a disaster

[Asker]

yup. the only positive thing about him is that he is a very kind man