Am I screwed? Did he break up with me?

[Anonymous]

I cheated on my boyfriend apparently my mom told him two days ago but I saw her phone and didn’t see she called him Then he texted me regularly for a day Then next day he said I don’t want to talk to you again. I even texted him today saying why? I didn’t have closure. I’m not even sure my mom even told him. What is this all about? What should I do?

[ManOnFire]

What closure do you need? Why would you even ask him "why"? You cheated on him, you know you did, and he knows you did. That is why he is cutting you off. You don't need any closure or conversation. Take the hit and move on.

[Asker]

Well it’s weird that he texted me normally after my mom apparently told him then the next day he said never talk to me again. Why?

[ManOnFire]

Nothing weird about it. You yourself admitted that you cheated, and you either told your mom or she just found out, and she told your boyfriend. Then he made the intelligent decision to cut you off. Case closed.

[Asker]

Well then my mom is an idiot for telling him when I don’t even have an STD. It was not necessary right? I should have not confessed

[ManOnFire]

Your mom is a hero for being more loyal to your boyfriend than you were. Deep down you are not sorry you cheated on him, you're just upset because it got found out. Deal with it.

[Anonymous]

Closure? You don’t deserve any of that. Stop acting like you’re the victim here, you’re not. And stop acting like you care about him, you don’t. You don’t cheat on people if you have a normal level of empathy and morals. Only selfish, narcissistic, psychos do. Yeah, he knows you cheated and yeah he broke up with you. As he should. Your mom is a hero for telling him.

[WhitneySnow]

She almost certainly told him. The only way you’re going to get closure is if you admit to what you did and tell him why. Although if the answer is impulse problems, he might not be very sympathetic.

[Kvass]

Your closure was the moment you decided to cheat.

[beenherebefore]

You don't deserve any type of closure if you cheated on him he has the right to leave you.

[slatyb]

Find someone else. Didn't cheat on them, or tell them you want an open relationship

[RareBreedOfMan]

I would talk to him and explain to him what's going on, the worst is he can say it's over

[Anonymous]

It sounds like you got what you deserved.

[AgentG111]

You cheated there's your answer.

[kinks1951]

Wonder how he found out

[Asker]

How do you think he found out?

[kinks1951]

Do you really think your mom told him

[kinks1951]

You went out with another guy because you needed too

[Asker]

I don’t know I didn’t see her calling him. Why would he just say I never wanna talk again out of the blue?

[kinks1951]

Someone may have seen you and told him

[kinks1951]

How do you feel about open relationships

[Asker]

Nope no one usually tells him. How else would he find out?

[Asker]

I don’t mind it but not in my religion I can’t have that

[kinks1951]

Are you sure that is the reason he no longer wants to see you

[Asker]

Yeah I’m pretty sure he never says stuff like this

[kinks1951]

Could the guy you went out with have told him

[kinks1951]

I think girls should have fun

[fishbone77]

lol. you got your closure.

[MasterKS]

yes game over.