Do girls now want perfect men?

[Anonymous]

Any girl 20-30 is asking for a perfect guy. 101 boxes to tick. It makes sense for women to be picky but it gets to a weird point where girls are just happy to be single and childless. I don’t know anyone my age that is married with kids. Men are low priority to them and only to be considered if they are like perfect, if they 3X their life.

It doesn’t make sense when you can look at a whole gender and be like wtf are you all doing? Women think travelling is more important and fulfilling then love and family how broken is society.

Girls expect perfect men

No i do not agree

[Anonymous]

Yeah we’ve watched, experienced and learned that y'all aren’t worth it. You suck the life and joy out of us to the point that ”the post breakup/divorce glow up” is a known thing. Women in relationships gaining wait, losing hair, have their skin age. All because you bring stress and heartache into our lives. You lie, cheat, manipulate, play, abuse, don’t do shit around the house, don’t do any childrearing, aren’t romantic what so ever, are selfish in bed and expect 50-50. Why would women bring a man into her life when this is what she gets if she does? Nah, now you actually have to be a good person, have good morals, be attractive and make the womans life better for her to want to be with you. Otherwise yes, many women are rather single than to be treated like a maid with benefits who also have to pay half your rent, food and bills. Being single at least we can sleep well at night knowing nobody is cheating on us, we can feel good about ourselves without someone bringing us down, we don’t have to be disappointed by a partner forgetting/not caring about valentines/Christmas/birthday/anniversary, we only have to pick up after ourselves, only have to do our own laundry, can eat whatever we want for dinner without anyone telling us that’s not a proper dinner or asking what’s for dinner and nobody is nagging us for sex. We have family, friends and pets to keep us company. Can ask family/friends or hire someone if we need help with anything. We can even have kids on our own if we want to (sperm donor, adoption, coparent for example with a gay man there are websites where you can find people for this). In the past women were oppressed and couldn’t own anything or even have a bank account without a man. If a woman was single she was looked down upon, not to mention if she had a child without being married to a man. Back then women needed men, because men built a system were they oppressed women because that was the only way they could get what they wanted out of women. So, back then just being a man and having some sort of job was enough to get a woman because she was desperate. He was considered a good man if he didn’t beat you or drink too much. The bar was in hell. Now when women are more equal to men and don’t need men for their survival women can have standards and when no man meet their standards they can just remain single, and many do - because we aren’t desperate anymore.

[kembguy]

Only some men are like that. It seemed like you have chosen bad men as partners, and that's not the fault of good men.

[Asker]

It is common knowledge nice guys finish last. Maybe try and understand why women don’t like nice men would be a good start

[Nikki1989]

Why is it so hard to find any Blue Anon on here that isn't a delusional moron?

[Nikki1989]

You need to get out of your mama's basement, dude. Almost everyone I know is married. You must know some real losers.

The 101 boxes comment was a real pisser. Congrats.

[Anonymous]

We’ve been so traumatized by our experiences with men that we don’t want to date anymore. Life has been more peaceful since I stopped dating a few years ago.

[kembguy]

Cause you choose bad men

[Ariesman81Nshiiit]

Traveling = I don't like where I am. Fly me out. I'll come to you.

Family oriented = Come to me

[canamlusciouslad73]

Most women are sensibly choosy about men. Just the nutjobs want male perfection.