Is it a red flag that my potential partner dislikes my long calls with a female friend?

[Anonymous]

I have been talking to this woman off eHarmony for months, and we talk on the phone basically every day, although TBH I am not completely sure about her, and I think she goes a little far, like we haven't had a video call or met in person, yet you say you're falling in love with me, and we're working towards marriage, etc. She's not a scammer. I have her identity confirmed, lives in the US, etc. But this is a little much for me.

Anyway, she's supposed to be a very churchgoing Catholic, and I told her about this friend of mine who I have a 90 minute-2 hour phone call with, probably like, 80%+ of weeks, in the afternoon, when she would be working anyway. I've had zero romantic interest in this other woman for 8+ years. We are literally just friends, and live far apart/no interest in living where each other is, etc. And she tells me I should not be having those calls with her because this is like "not fertile ground" for building a relationship, etc.

I don't know, some of the stuff she says, and sometimes she seems to get irritated with me (although she doesn't get audibly angry or anything), but I think this is all a little much for me. There are some yellow flags that border on red for me sometimes...

[Masie]

That would be a red flag for me. I am not going to sacrifice friends because of someone else's insecurity which is how I would view this. Just because the friend is female should not be an issue.

I have some friends from high school that are guys that I still talk to. We don't talk a lot since we are all generally busy, but we will on occasion. If someone I was potentially going to date had an issue with it, that would be the end of that potential.

[Anonymous]

[In_Trance]

So you're asking everyone else if someone else's actions is a red flag for you?