Would you leave your partner if a more attractive person liked you?

[clearskiess]

İt happened to me, he cheated on me... Years ago when I was in highschool

[Finchie40]

Only if my current partner was consistently treating me like shit and things weren’t so good between her and I anymore , and nothing longer working together anymore , and I allowed myself to open up to someone else , then I possibly would leave her for someone else , because in a sense I am already cheating on her anyways by doing so to someone else , other than opening up to my partner instead. Also , I wouldn’t necessarily leave my current partner just for attraction reasons , there would have to be chemistry and connection as well for me to even consider dumping someone for someone else , so if my current relationship is good and her and I are happy together and love each other , and we work as a team , then no way in hell would I leave my current partner for someone else. It takes more than just attraction for me to even consider that question. If this happened during the time my ex and I were butting heads and no longer getting along , I more than likely would have done it. But it didn’t happen , because I decided to focus on myself and heal from that hell I went through. So now I been starting to feel better about myself and now been open to meeting someone else , because I am now single and ready to mingle , even though I know I am not rushing into another relationship with someone immediately. Until I really get to know them , So to answer your question , Only selfish people do that to their partner , because they only truly care about themselves , they never truly loved their partner to begin with , so they monkey branch on to someone else because they can’t take accountability for their selfish actions or behaviors , so they find another Sucker to latch onto before they make their move. Because someone that leaves a happy relationship for someone else , is a selfish moron. And sadly these days there are a lot of selfish people

[ohsheeT]

I look at it like this the moment I get in to a relationship and she's the one 2 weeks in to it something hsppens and I meet some who looks great great personality I mean just get all the way around

And all i can do is smile because I know im being tested and im the one who probably called for this test to happen ..

Because it never fails it happens every relationship that I get into and like I said all I can do is smile because

one of the best parts about getting into a relationship is knowing who you are and knowing that this is going to happen once a week once a month once a year doesn't matter it's always going to happen it's going to be put out in front of you

And you get to make a choice which direction you want to go You get to make a choice who do you want to be In life

So I choose to smile and stay right where I'm at Because I'm there for a reason And the reason means more to me than Hurting somebody

And of course that would be me but breaking somebody's heart and doing something stupid just does not make sense to me

The grass is always going to look greener on the other side but it doesn't matter because you have to take care of it you have to water it just like you're doing now with the person you're with

And it's just like I know that guys will come into her world too and she's going to have to make a choice and that's up to her too I cannot tell her what to do I cannot make her stay I cannot make anything happen except for what I do and I choose to be right where I'm at stay right there

So to answer your question no I wouldn't it's just not worth it to me

And I'm going to be very selfish right now And Because I would lose something If I did that And that something would be me

And I'm just not willing to pay that price

[HawkPerception]

It depends. Am I currently happy in my relationship? Does my current girlfriend make me feel valued? Does she have faith in my character and decisions? Does she make me feel listened to and understood? Does she make me feel desired? Do we have sex on a regular basis/does she weaponize sex? Do we have similar values? How long were we together for?

If the answer to all of those questions and more are good, then I'm staying. No reason to leave. If not, I'm gone. But I would never cheat. You have to be a real scumbag to cheat.

[sawno]

Complicated question where the short answer is no.

Basically I know I would leave someone if someone better came along. Its the obvious honest answer. Why would I stay with an ok partner if my dream partner is interested in me? (Which for the sake of answer is more likely to be an even better personality while also being very pretty).

I know I am like that because I am an insanely honest person especially to myself. But at the same time I never want to have to do this to anyone. So instead before accepting a relationship I ask myself that crucial question, "Would I leave her if someone incredible came along?". If the answer is no then I know I am ready for the relationship. Prior to answering No I don't start a relationship. That would be setting us both up to fail.

With my ex she was so incredible that the answer was the honest genuine no. Even if someone more beautiful wanted me, she had everything I wanted in a girl and on top of that we had insane loyalty and a true bond. Just being a perfect girl wouldn't be enough because that new girl would lack the bond.

Its a very high bar as a result, but to me this is the only honest way of commitment.

[Anonymous]

I am ashamed of admitting that I am hopeless romantic.
I never got the girl😅, I got the best college to impress her, then she chose someone else, then I got the best job at the CLG and after CLG to impress another girl that didn't work as well, then I tried slow burn 3 times with different girls in different time frames.

All of them had someone else lined up or caste (I am Indian caste is something like a clan but much more racist and violence, they perform honour killing in some castes if they are with someone from a lower caste)

And I still think if any one girl ever gave me a chance how my life would have turned out. I am approaching my 30's and I haven't even kissed yet😂.

And no I don't think any guy who loves someone and puts good amount of effort in a relationship will leave.

The guy who would leave is the guy who have betrayed someone else before and will keep doing that all the time.

I still hate that I had to endure so many heart breaking in front of me.
Getting rejected and putting me in guilt. But that how my life is.

[Anonymous]

That's not the way love works. I always find it amusing when people say they're in love with two people at the same time. Because that is not possible. What they mean to say is they're not in love with either person, but is infatuated with both. Because when you TRULY love someone. The volume knob and the ability to become attracted to someone else get turned way down. You might be charmed by someone. You might even on some level appreciate their attractiveness. But you have eyes for the person you love. The only way that changes is if there's trouble in paradise so-to-speak. REAL LOVE doesn't just happen, Infatuation happens. Real love has to be maintained.

[OneViewpoint]

My concept of "attractive" is pretty complex. So I seldom find anyone I want to be with long term. And I'm pretty loyal as long loyalty is a two way street. So it would take some monumental event (s) to make me move on from someone I find "attractive". She wouldn't have been chosen based on looks alone.

[Likes2drive]

Not now if I had somebody but younger people would tend to do that because they don’t wanna miss out on any opportunities back then so that explains why people in high school would do that and in their 20s and even 30s, but once you get to a certain age and you have somebody stable with you. You’re not going to do stuff like that

[milfboobssucker]

I dont judge or rate people based on looks race caste or community so i would like my life partner possess the same qualities as well and as far as current norm and scenario goes women and girls tend to be more indulged in adultery extra marital relationships than men do

[ChicoFromThe305]

No that's messed up, that more attractive person did you a favor tho, he is her problem now

[clearskiess]

He brought me insecurities now...

[ChicoFromThe305]

Don't worry about it, you were never the issue, loyalty is something someone is born with, meaning he was just never loyal, he would've found any other reason to walk out on you.

[HighValue]

No because I am a loyal person. Plus, I dislike most people so I don't easily become interested in others even when single.

[RavVid]

Generally I'd say no but if there was a large gulf and more attractive girl was also very nice. The girl who will treat you best has leverage.

[Alex-Snow]

Not really. There is more to a relationship than just how attractive someone is. Sorry it happened to you in HS. That sucked. Were u sexually involved with him when he cheated on u?

[xawyx-3]

I'm single, so I don't have to worry about that.

[Anonymous]

I always leave them for a more attractive woman. And I even have side chick's that I keep around.

But i am a nice guy though.

[browsingthroughthe]

Ummm 😅🤔

Depends how much I loved her / she loved me

Or was she cheating on me 😂🫠

[bear34]

People make a lot of mistakes when they are young. Don't obsess over it.

[RareBreedOfMan]

No, I would never do such a thing. That's so hurtful, I imagine I had it happen to me years ago.

[RareBreedOfMan]

Besides looks don't matter to me its whats inside matters to me.

[TonyMetal___1986]

Never, if i had a loving partner, i'll be loyal to her till the end, no woman can take me from her!

[Anonymous]

That's impossible. The girl I want is the most attractive person.

[LiamS95]

It happened to me when we were engaged she was having sex with other guys. I dumped her.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Nope i definitely would not leave my partner. I wouldn't ever cheat. I'm fiercely loyal!!!😉

[jahaims]

People only cheat to cope with self hate.

[wkhan_87]

No ,,, it is deepest level of selfishness

[Iwccscg]

No because im not a woman

[canamlusciouslad73]

Almost certainly not.

[Lottydotty]

can not picture a moment I could ever cheat

[Drumlin2001]

Nope

[Alexson_stormzy]

Usual take but never forgotten

[Faith777]

No I wouldn’t

[dudeinohio]

Nope

[AgentG111]

Nope,