For example if the man or woman lets him or herself go and stops taking care of themselves, would you leave? I feel like I possibly would if the man i once fell for got fat or started looking rough in his face, etc. Looks are not everything but they do matter in a relationship. You have to wake up to that person everyday and see their face and body.
Okay, so I have a lot to talk about this one;
Regarding what you said about if my partner turned themselves into a slob, meaning just straight up stopped caring about their hygiene, looks etc, then yes, I pretty much would lose interest and attraction towards them. This doesn't just mean that they'll appear as unattractive to others, but also that others might pick up on it and start judging me for it as well.
That being said, this also depends on the context as well. If my S/O is going through a phase or something serious, like say, one of their really close loved one died in a brutal accident or a disease outbreak, or they failed a test they studied so hard over, or their dream job rejects their CV and they're devastated and fall into deep depression, losing themselves in the trauma, then that's a different story.
As I've said on multiple other questions here on GAG; love really is blind. You might fall for someone's looks but it's their kind heart and good soul you actually learn to love more. And if they're going through something as serious as the scenarios I mentioned above, then they need me more than ever, and leaving them during this stage of their lives when they need you the most to pull you out of their depressive state, is just cruel and unforgivable.
Yes, people might raise questions like "why are you dating such a hobo when he/she doesn't even care about themselves and all they do is mope and moan", to answer their question, first and foremost, it's none of their goddamn business who I choose to date or not to date. Second of all, if I love them, you can bet your ass I'm with them through thick and thin. Relationships are no joke nor a game, and the people who treat them like they are will never succeed in life.
Yes. Money is the tether that binds (a kid also) at the moment because her looks and personality are shit already. She also burned me hard by cheating before. I'm financially dependent though and I do worry about my kid's life... so I sort of just play the game while I poke fun at her growing a fucking mustache. She's getting fat too, and she fails at your basic cleanliness. I'll be real, I fantasize about coming up on some money and being able to just be alone or just me and my kid.
Any new chick would find herself being strategically removed from holding any power at all over me. I refuse to be there for her financial benefit, a babysitter, an emotional tampon, or a show pony for her family and friend events.
Needless to say, I've developed a few resentments. I want to be wanted only because I'm buff, can fuck like a champ, and maybe a bit of my humor.
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It would definitely be a problem, but I do not think I can stop loving family. If we get that far then, you will become a family member to me. I take care of my own. But of course, God and myself come before anybody. If you want to sit around the house and do nothing, I don't care as long as we are like family.
I agree with you and too many men do just that, get fat and sloppy
If I wasn't attracted to them, why stay? That would be not in love with them anymore.
Sure, if she wasn’t willing to put in effort to be attractive to me.
Sad that I have had it with my wife
Not a chance.
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