Are most dating apps just scams or can you actually meet someone?

[dinojames22]

Obviously

Most are

No they are legit

[ChiTown33]

Well i certainly wouldn't use a PAY site if i were you. I'd stick to free site like Plenty of Fish.

Of course it's possible to meet someone. But understand most people on them having no intention of meeting anyone. So if you aggresively message expect a lot of rejection. Your effort makes zero difference on a dating app. She's either feeling you or she's not.

This is why when i used dating apps i just let them message me. They know who they want to talk to and why they're there. Don't overcomplicate it.

[Masie]

I have never used one. I do know of one friend that signed up. She said it wasn't great. The biggest complaint that she had was that it was guys flooding her messages trying to jump right to going out without even as much as a conversation.

I think that would bother me too. Some people just are too antsy and want to immediately go on a date without at least talking for a little bit to see if it is worth meeting or not.

[ChiTown33]

Drive through order mentality.🤣

But if you saw the amount of rejection men take on online dating you'd understand more. The typical man messages 100 women to get 1 response. Understandably a man can start off with a long personalized message. But when he realizes a "hey" messages nets him the same results he starts doing that.🤣

I've had both. I've talked to women who've chatted for a month that went nowhere. And i've had women want to meet me after 3 sentences.🤷‍♂️🤣 I just let them decide. I know what i bring to the table. Either they want to get mixed up with that, or some other woman will. Everybody wins.👍

[Masie]

If I were to use one, ideally just a brief intro suffices as long as their profile lays out who they are well.

Then just a week chatting would work for me to learn enough to go yeah this has promise.

[zagor]

They are designed to make money for the creators.

I haven't really had a good experience with them.

[Likes2drive]

Most of the free ones are scams, but the ones you pay for or OK like eHarmonyand match. com but the free ones like fumble and OkCupid are usually fine

[Iron_Man]

Maybe three years later maybe if you get lucky

[Paige2006]

Some are legit