Is he mad I didn’t sleep over or am I just overthinking this new guy?

[Anonymous]

I need opinions because I can’t tell if I’m overthinking this 😭 I recently started seeing a guy I went to high school with and we’ve been on 3 dates. I just got out of a long relationship so we haven’t kissed or anything yet, but I do really like him.

He’s been asking me to come to his cottage and I finally went this weekend with my sister. We spent the day there and he really wanted me to sleep over and go out with them that night, but I felt super underdressed cuz we ended up at a resto/club so we left early.

After I left he texted saying he was happy he got to see me and that he thought I looked great. I texted back asking “did you guys have a good night?” and he hasn’t answered in over 24 hours 😭 Do you think he’s mad I didn’t sleep over? Or did he see me all day and think I was fat or something? I don't know I’m spiraling lol

[tiredpanda]

Hold your horses. 😆 Wait a bit and see how he will be when he answers you.

I would erase completely your last ''possibility'', but there is a possibility that he wanted sex and now is in a strop (or he moved on onto another one) after he didn't get what he wanted. If this is the case I would drop him if I were you.

[tiredpanda]

My biggest concern here is are you ready for new relationship? You said that you just got out of long term one

[exitseven]

it is hard to say. Don't give up just yet. Maybe he is still interested.

[jahaims]

You are too immature to date if you spiral that easily

[Anonymous]

What do you think it’s easy he wants sex

[Anonymous]

You are overthinking