My boyfriend and I usually have 1 night a week sleeping at each other's place. We haven't had a night next to each other in 2 weeks. We have both been really busy so I understood. But we finally got time for each other and I asked if he wanted to sleep over. I told him though he would need to leave at around 10am because I was heading out of town. He said because he wouldn't be able to sleep in he didn't want to.
I understand the importance of sleep but this was a chance for us to be together and wake up together. I was hurt that he chose sleeping in past 10am.
I was upset and he knew this. The next day he acted as of nothing was wrong. When I decided to tell him I was upset he told me he knew. I said it was because of him. All he said was sorry. He didn't ask why and then just moved on. He didn't want to talk about it or why I felt the way I did. Like I didn't matter. I brought it up again the next day hoping to talk it out and he wasn't interested even if I was still upset.
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It doesn't sound like you're overreacting. I can understand wanting to spend quality time together, even if it means sacrificing a little sleep. When you two rarely get nights together as it is, I'd be kinda bummed if my girl chose sleep over me too.
The way he just brushed off your feelings after wouldn't sit right with me either. A relationship takes communication, not just saying sorry then moving on before you're even feeling heard. Maybe he's stressed and not thinking straight, but still he should wanna understand why you felt hurt.
I'd just be honest with him and say you need him to listen when you open up about stuff that's bothering you. Compromise is important - like maybe next time he can stay over even if he has to leave a bit earlier. But right now it seems like he's not meeting you halfway. Definitely don't bottle it up if it keeps happening. Hope you guys can find a way to connect more.
He has to be pretty whipped to even apologise to you about something like that.
If I was in his position I'd have just laughed in your face.
So you'd laugh because I asked him to sleep over? Like it's ridiculous because I'm taking away that he can't sleep in past 10?
He may just be exhausted.