How do I stop feeling so insecure before meeting my online date?

[Anonymous]

Okay im really scared to meet my date we have been speaking for so much time now and im really insecure about the girls in his list theyre very prettier and i feel insecure myself..! He tells me to send videos/selfies to him i always say to to them bcz i feel like he'll lose feelings.. and im insecure as well about what id he losses feelings after he meets me in real life? What if i dont look good with him what if i look chopped.. it really is bothering me for days now.. i just have gaps in my teeth they r not even too visible but still I feel insecure..

Updates

14 d

(P. s he just askes for selfies bcz he misses me)

[DishLady]

There's no reason to lower yourself to what the guy CLAIMS other women are doing. There is no reason for you to send photos or videos of yourself to a STRANGER at all, ever.

[Alex-Snow]

He would not ask you for a date if he did not like you or think you are not attractive. Do not overthink it. Everyone is nervous to some extent on a first date. Just be yourself and have some fun. How old is he?

[Alex-Snow]

TY for the mho

[Stevepro68]

Unless you are significantly sociopathic or severely autistic, it will always be the case.

[Nikki1989]

Posting this as an 'anon' suggests you shouldn't be dating at this point in your life.

[queenofcardio]

You try to stop yourself for thinking that way. Just try and have fun.

[jahaims]

Insecure people shouldn't date. You aren't emotionally healthy if you are insecure. Emotionally unhealthy people can't have healthy relationships

[Anonymous]

He has put all this effort and thought into you too. He could be just as nervous.

[Anonymous]

He has seen you so stop worrying about it. All the video requests are a little weird tho