I just feel like when I post my profile after 5 minutes, and then looking at the single girls on there. I just get discouraged, and think I should work on myself more because I don’t feel comfortable putting my face out there to the internet. My female boss who was into me always told me that I’m a “perfect” guy. But I don’t feel like I’m remotely close to that. It’s been years since I’ve been on a date because I’ve been working on myself, and every time I feel like I’m ready for online dating. I think I’m ugly in pictures even I get told that I’m “hot” a lot, and I get lots of women who flirt with me, and get gross comments from guys who I thought were straight (I’m straight), saying they want to see my feet, and my dick, and all that. Even got offered threesomes before. What can I do? It’s not like girls will ever ask me out because they find me intimidating.
How can I not be scared of putting myself on dating sites?
