Met a guy who refused to share contact info—is he hiding something?

[Anonymous]

Hi all.

I met a boy here and I wanted to know him but he didn't give me his social media and phone number.

Is he a liar or married?

What do you think?

[HollyK21]

I’m guessing you’re the same woman whose post I just commented on, and I wish you just included all this context into one because I totally would’ve wondered if you are simply conceited. I say this because why do the first things that come to your mind when a guy doesn’t wanna share his contact info is that he’s being secretive and hiding a woman? Why can’t it be because he’s just not interested in you? Because that is the first logical thing that would come to my mind. I wouldn’t think I’m just such hot shit that if a guy doesn’t give me his information it’s because he’s doing another woman wrong.

[queenofcardio]

He probably doesn't wanna know. It's normal for people to not want to share contact info especially online.

[bowenw]

He may not want to know you or may be hiding something. Move on if he doesn't want to be open with you.

[MrChinaski]

I don't give out contact information until I trust someone.

[Anonymous]

It's possible. Did you either ask for his or give yours? I wouldn't give any real information to anyone on this site, unless I thought she was who I was looking for.

[Alex-Snow]

He may already have a girlfriend, wife or just was testing the water. Was he ok on chatting openly with you on here in DM?

[Abbycado]

Lmao, no. He doesn’t want to give his info to you. Do you give yours to anyone that asks? No, of course not.

[Asker]

I don't give my social media anyone. If I like a boy , I give him my social media.

[Abbycado]

So, if you don’t give it to everyone that asks, then the people you refuse to give it to can safely assume you are secretly married?

[Nikki1989]

Not always. I would never give out that info either.

[slatyb]

Don't waste your time.

[jahaims]

Or... he doesn't like you

[TakeItDeep]

Maybe