I feel that he is hiding something, should I confront him?

[Anonymous]

My situationship is hiding something from me... that's what my gut feeling is telling me. I don't know what it is, but I tried telling him to spill the beans, but he somehow told me "should I give you explanation for anything and everything I do?"... like I'm not entitled to know if there is something or maybe I'm overthinking.

Do you think that his reaction means that?

[Constatine]

"should I give you explanation for anything and everything I do?".. Basicly means... In my opinion... Mind your fucking own business.

If he is Not hiding something he can tell. The fact that he doesn't does not mean he is actually hiding something but heis also not being open and honest..

This is a very black ground to build your relation on...

I wish you well.. 🤗

[Asker]

I don't really want to know about the other things he is doing (I want to know, but we are not in a relationship, so I don't have that right... unfortunately), but I want to know about the things which involve me, cause his behavior is towards me... I think he owes me an explanation or just to leave me alone... which hasn't happened, so I want my explanation.

[RavVid]

I want some space so I would find your approach intrusive. I enjoy my own thoughts about stuff and don't want to share them.

I saw a funny clip. The girls is saying he must know I am angry because we haven't spoken for half an hour. Cuts to the guy saying I could take out a black bear - just get him in a head lock easy. Maybe he doesn't feel he needs to give you his thoughts on black bears.

[Anonymous]

He is your situationship? So this means you aren't in a relationship or married, so nothing he does that doesn't involve the 2 of you is any of your business. So he doesn't have to tell you anything.

[Asker]

The problem is he is different towards me... so I think it is my business to ask what's the reason.

[Opinion Owner]

From your post you are implying you are trying to find out shit that doesn't involve you. Obviously from what you said about his response also says you are pushing to find out what doesn't involve you

[Asker]

I held his response as if he is not someone who gives information to anyone... he is a bachelor... lives alone, he is his own boss. Many times said "I don't give explanation to anyone, even to my parents"... so I believe that's why he responded like that.

[sheikalana]

If it's a situationship you shouldn't even bother. You're not in a serious relationship you don't owe anything to each other.

[spartan55]

You are acting like a psycho. He ain't your boyfriend, you don't seem to get that. You aren't in a committed relationship.

[AmeerX]

Don't suffocate the man. That's not a good way to go about it. If you have a feeling something is wrong then first try to find evidence. Till then calm down.

[Asker]

You are right... he told me today that Im annoying to him and irritate him almost all the time and if I don't stop, we won't make it work...

[AmeerX]

Then give it a brake. It will get better if you give him some space. In fact you know it is better if you write him a hand written letter once in a while telling him your feelings instead of just instand messaging.

[shades777]

ask him when he's in your guts