Honestly I think the big deal here is that some part of him misses the good times with his ex. That or she's toying with him. I think the first step is to try to get to know his ex, and from there, see if you can figure out why she's still even talking to him anymore. Though you don't want to be too antagonistic or blunt about it, because you wouldn't want to end up looking like a jealous girlfriend now would you? Probably not. So if so try to be careful about this.
Personally I think that beyond that, there is another problem here. You don't trust him. Granted you have some cause to feel this way, but bottom line all around is simply you don't trust him. So I have to ask you, if you don't trust him, what are you doing still dating him? The big thing with most relationships is trust. I suggest you start talking this stuff over with him maybe even with the ex as well and try to sort this all out. Oh and when you do, try to come at this with concern, understanding and care. You want him to feel like this is because you love him.
If you can't sort this all out, and if you can't shake your fears I suggest you just plainly leave, because in all likelihood, I don't see your problems getting any better with time. Sort it out, talk this through, and try to work through your fears or just end it. Life's too short to spend it on boyfriends who can't commit. Nobody has to stay in a relationship worrying about a guy they don't trust. Try to remember this. I hope you can work this out though. It sounds like this situation really sucks.
Good luck.
hey..i think if she broke with him then probably she is the one who came back and started that friendhip thing. But you should trust ur boyfriend. I think probably she wanna get him again, I mean I m just saying it because you saiid that he is hiding something. I think you need to talk to him about it. Like just ask him that what is his ex doing these days?...
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Ok so yah as a girl I know how you feel when a guy is talking to an ex. But YOU HAVE TO TRUST HIM. Like I always say a relationship is built on a foundation of trust. If you don't trust him then it will never work out. The reason I am telling you this is from experience. If you go snooping in his life, things will turn out very bad and he may not wanna be with you anymore. If he says they are just friends then just leave it alone. He is with you and I'm pretty sure the ex knows and if he truly cares about you he will stay faithful. Show him that you trust him. Don't stress about it because he will see that and guys don't like being questioned about such things. Just let it be. Trust me I have experience with this.
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cant two exes txt each other in peace ! give'em a chance
Any guy that can not truly break something off with their ex will remember why they got together and all the good times together, which will probably cause him to eventually cheat.
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