Should I text my ex boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I still love him and he loves me. I broke up with him because he ghosted me. We never fought during our relationship or argued.

[QuadDamage]

You don't ghost somebody you have invested time with and gotten to know more then just friends and the bound is established?

It's abnormal even if you're depressed in my book. You at least say something. I'd get anxious if my girlfriend just disappeared. Would worry about her. And Would want a heads up of what's going on.

Then If she wanted space, I'd give her that. But you don't just vanish without a word 😑 that sends very mixed signals!

[NZGirl07]

If he ghosted you it implies he didn't like you anymore. Messaging him would be a mistake, if he valued you he would have fought for you not to break up.

[Asker]

That’s what i was thinking. He told me that the last reason he ghosted me he was depressed but he didn’t try to get me to stay. He texted me that he misses me and loves me 6 months after the break up and I told him off but I feel like I was a bit too harsh last time..

[NZGirl07]

Depression is understandable but I still feel like he could have done more. It's best to leave the past in the past.

[Asker]

I know he could have done more and communicated a lot better. I’ve experienced depression before and when I do, I just feel so shitty that I don’t want to talk to anybody but I let my loved ones know about it. I have dated a couple of guys after him but they didn’t last. One of them cheated on me and I broke up with him when the girl reached out and the other one ghosted me after talking for a month. My Ex was really sweet to me, kind, caring up until the ghosting part…

[Asker]

Not sure if my ex ghosting me is something that’s forgivable?