Do guys like it when a girl asks them out first, or prefer old school?

[Anonymous]

Hi guys, would love to hear from you if you like when a girl approaches you, asks you out or on a date? or are you more into the old school - a guy has to ask the girl out? what do you think about a female who is not afraid to ask you out? could you end up in a relationship with such woman or is it more like "lets have fun" and "nothing serious".

[MVMartin]

You dont need to ask for a date to get a date. Girls job is to flirt and give positive signals and the guys job is to read them and act. If you give 100 signals and he doesn’t respond to them he either doesn’t like you or his social intelligence is 0. You could exchange socials, like some pictures, and maybe start a conversation if you are more socially awkward. I dont mind getting approached or getting text from a girl first if i like her. If i dont its awkward cuz i do t want to make them feel bad

[Asker]

sounds about right, I'm more into flirting than asking a guy out, but I recently dont really have any luck with guys approaching me, I probably forgot how to flirt :D

[MVMartin]

Well also men nowdays are more socially awkward. Afraid to act even if they think they have a chance.

[Asker]

it's usually the older men who are not afraid to show interest or even ask me out, hah.

[MountainMetal]

I liked being asked out personally, I could tell she was nervous and it was attractive that she asked me anyways

[Asker]

that's sweet :) I also have an issue with asking out, fear of rejection:)

[Nikki1989]

Old school. Most men turned into a frightened little puppy when a woman approached them.

[Asker]

that's so true, I only asked one guy out, and he was literally speechless, now when I see him and want to ask him something, he has these big eyes, and once he hears my question (which is not related to going out) he then acts cool.

[queenofcardio]

Some men are clueless when it comes to knowing whether a woman is interested in them. Some will appreciate you approaching them first.

[exitseven]

I was very shy when I was young. I was scared to ask out a girl even if I knew she was into me. I could have used a little push.

[Anonymous]

I need a women to approach me. I tried once and was left permanently damaged.

[Pterodon]

I’d love for a woman to ask me out. That would be so flattering

[Anonymous]

It's illegal for a man to approach a woman here these days

[slatyb]

Yes, we do. Who wouldn't?

[tzdc21]

Hell yeah thats awesome if she asks us out first.

[Abbycado]

Old school

[Anonymous]

Most would love for us to ask them

[Asker]

interesting, I usually hear they like to ask the girl out , and not vice-versa

[Opinion Owner]

They are all constantly complaining we don’t want them approaching us anymore and such, so many of them have stopped. And paranoia and fear of rejection etc.

[Asker]

true, I noticed as well , as a single woman, that many guys have issues with approaching me, I even heard from a friend of mine that a guy told him he likes me but has no balls to ask me out bc he is afraid of being rejected.

[Opinion Owner]

Yep, there are some old school types for sure but I think most wish we would save them from having to risk the rejection

[jahaims]

Depends on the guy