Is it too soon to ask for her number after just learning her name?

[Anonymous]

I keep crossing paths with a woman in the mornings on the way to work. We started with smiles and greetings, and recently I finally asked her name. She told me and then asked for mine too.

The problem is that we’re always moving in opposite directions and she seems to be heading for the train, so I never know whether she’s actually in a rush or just walking quickly. I don’t want to stop her and make her late, but I’d genuinely like to get to know her and ask for her number.

Would it be okay next time to briefly say that I’d like to talk to her sometime when we’re not both rushing and ask for her number? Or would you wait for a bit more conversation first?

For context, she smiles when she sees me and sometimes initiates the morning greeting, but I don’t want to read too much into that.

[Mark_Est]

Dont waste your time buddy. Dont simp. You are simping right now.

Men chase goals not women. If you want to give her your number then just do it. Dont care what she does with it. If she likes you then she will be happy, if she doesn't then she is a waste of time anyway.

Focus on your own life. Stop wasting your effort even thinking about her and what ifs.

[MrChinaski]

Go for it. Buy her a coffee. It doesn't need to be a whole big thing.

[Nikki1989]

It is never too soon.

[Alex-Snow]

What a fun problem to have!! I say go for it or ask if you can also follow her on socials. Is she around ur age?

[Asker]

hmmm i think so. She doesn't seem older than me, maybe perhaps a couple of years younger than me or we could be age mates.

[Alex-Snow]

I would get her number and see where it goes. It could be the start of a fun relationship or just great sex... who knows. But it would be better than just wanking thinking about it !!!

[NathanDavis]

what are your intentions with her?

[Asker]

Well, I like her vibe, I want to know her, and if there’s chemistry, I’d be interested in dating her.

[NathanDavis]

but you don't really know anything about her... you never talked to her

so... you must be attracted to her looks and that's pretty much it, no?

[Asker]

Yeah, 😂 i was just too ambiguous when i said i like her vibe. What i meant is pretty much what you state plus surprisingly she has a nice voice

[NathanDavis]

okay, so... she's pleasant and physically attractive

what if she has a boyfriend then?

[Asker]

Got her digits after she told me she has a boyfriend. I didn't want to text her - but curiosity got the best of me. So i sent a text, she replied 36 hours later, i replied then nothing. Long story short i still see her and she greets lol but yeah

[NathanDavis]

alright...

[Anonymous]

Fortune favors the bold.

[In_Trance]

You're lame. Stop posting this shit

[Abbycado]

Nope.