What physical traits do you look for in a potential partner?

[rapfan107]

[SueShe]

I am not interested in the physical traits of a person. That is not important because those change (usually for the worse) with time.

If I was into dating or even looking for a partner, he should have a number of qualities. To me, the most important things about a person, regardless whether this person is to date, to talk to or just to be with are:

- Character
- Intellect
- Personality
- Charisma
- Responsible
- Humor
- Caring
- Open mind
- Being respectful of others, animals and nature
- Not selfish
- Altruism
- Honesty
- Humble
- Generosity
- Simplicity
- Kindness
- Smart
- Empathy
- Positive attitude
- Assertiveness
- Body hygiene

That about summarizes what I seek in another person. I know that will be difficult, but I can still hope, no?

What I am not interested the least are looks, cult of the personality, physique, height, weight and for those that are so worried about that small detail, the size of their penile appendage. That is totally not relevant to me.

[loveslongnails]

" ... but I can still hope, no? "... Hope for WHAT? You don't date. How would you ever know half of those things about someone if you don't date them. LOL Better question ---- let's say someone like that even exists... why would they want YOU? Are you all of those things?

[aceleon]

yeah sure good luck when a guy with all of these traits but a hideous face, body and dick expects you to have sex with him when you are together.

[gasman70]

@aceleon yea, excellent question. I'm waiting for that answer. They are all holier than though, then when it comes down to it, those same ones are with the handsome jerks.

[agaba]

heiii dea

[loveslongnails]

@aceleon There are zero humans alive, men or women, with all those traits. LOL The poster lives in fantasy world.

[aceleon]

@loveslongnails even if there is it doesn't matter, she is not getting wet for the dude if he is ugly.

[loveslongnails]

@aceleon LOL That's not happening no matter how good looking he is anyway, not for her.

[aceleon]

@loveslongnails dude, she is a hetero woman i assume so no, she can get wet by someone, just not from a guy with a good personality but shitty face. no need to exaggarate this much, yeah her criterias are basically she wanting an archangel as a man i agree to that.

[loveslongnails]

@aceleon What I'm saying is if you've seen her other posts, she doesn't date and she's declared her lack of interest in men again and again.

[blackeagle007]

@loveslongnails you are attracted to men

[loveslongnails]

@blackeagle007 You're an idiot.

[Sugar100]

@loveslongnails I’ve given ugly men a chance before and they treat u worse and act like u are the ugly one. All girls know it’s not worth it give the ugly guy a chance.

And yes u Need get wet for the guy you date or for your husband as u will need have sex daily with your husband. Nothing wrong with needing to be wet for a guy that might be your life partner

[Sugar100]

I do date, but I’m not dating a new guy weekly , as rn I’m
Busy getting new jobs and not have time searching all day on a dating app. I go out walk alone to Walmart or an outdoor mall, and guys already have babies and a girlfriend and don’t speak to me. Or look at me. Only at a rich city the white guys there show interest like I’m most beautiful girl in world. Anywhere else I get 0 interest. Still men won’t approach me and I won’t aproach them as I’m scared be rejected again. So I lost confidence to ever speak first to a guy.

This is y I like dating apps it’s easy say you are single and meet guys. But I haven’t been on them for a long time.

[Sugar100]

It’s exhausting meet men each month, I want my partner and we date few years and peogrsss and never need search for men ever again.

[Sugar100]

That’s my dream that doesn’t come true

[blackeagle007]

@Sugar100 we don’t approach thanks to the me too eara. Cops get called, we get accused of harassment and you’ll put everything on ticktock.

[Sugar100]

@blackeagle007 so how girls get bfs? All girls approach men? When I aproach I’m rejected so that’s y I no longer will approach men but they r too shy and don’t speak. Its annoying

[blackeagle007]

@Sugar100 way back before “me too” dating was fun, not intimated to approach. But since then, it’s different. Those feminist groups are promoting anti men

[Sugar100]

@blackeagle007 I see all girls with bfs. 😞 so my partner don’t exist? Do guys not like blonde girls? I need change my hair to brown? 😞

[blackeagle007]

@Sugar100 huh? I have no clue what you look like first off. Unless women find us super attractive, we’re not gonna approach, you contact police. Women’s standards are very high. Only dating top 5% of men. Plus we gotta make 6 digits a year

[Sugar100]

@blackeagle007 so do u have a girlfriend or you are single?

[blackeagle007]

@Sugar100 safe to say single

[aceleon]

@blackeagle007 dude please stop, the top %5 and the 6 digits thing is an internet crap no one in real life has those standarts, otherwise the guys who get the most tails wouldn't be the broke wife beater types.

[Sugar100]

@blackeagle007 I’ve never met anyone that’s single and thinks I’m love of his life. Everyone already has found the one and not me. So I need date 18 year told for them see me as the one? For them make me their first girlfriend? Only first gfs are seen as the one? I never had a first boyfriend

[blackeagle007]

@aceleon Son, hush and sit down.

Sugar, you must understand, dating is harder on males overall. A couple girls here in this site said even said it’s all about looks.

Why don’t you get on a dating app anyway? I’m sure you’ll get a lot of messages

[Sugar100]

@blackeagle007 if I go on dating app men don’t want take u for date and only want sex and call y a friend and everyday they continue tell family n friends he’s single. Issue is I can’t find guy that is proud call me his girlfriend be in love for me. No nothing is wrong with me. I get told I’m sweet nice cute. I’m bit shy but I talk and I used to approach men first but got rejected. I just am not tall with huge boobs and ass. Guys like me but would find other girls hotter than me so I can’t get commitment due to this.

[aceleon]

@blackeagle007 dude, i had enough of your pathetic rambling about how you things this things work, stop yapping, girls don't fuck your sorry ass because of this not because you don't make 6 digits and as long as you remain as this condescending lousy incel you are basically human waste let alone a man.
note: if you want to be able to have sons biologically don't ever dare to call me that again not that any woman will give you any son or daughter.

[blackeagle007]

@aceleon oh no! I’m terrified of someone from the internet. I’ll call you son because you are my son. Please respect.

[Interstate]

Once you've been with somebody for so long, you tend to not notice their physical appearance change. It is like being in a cold room. You can heat it up, but you've been exposed to the cold for so long you won't notice the heat.

[jennifer_bloom]

I like guys with square shoulders, average sized arms, not the big buff arms you see on personal trainers, and I like a flat stomach. I find most men look good when they eat a healthy diet, do a little bit of walking or mountain climbing, and do not do more than that. I do not like massive muscles on a guy, I like a guy who looks thin or normal sized.

[agaba]

hmmmmmm

[FunkyMonkee]

I guess the biggest attractors would be the usual: pretty face, nice big tits, sexy legs, long hair, sexy clothes, great attitude and easy to get along with but, a lot of those physical traits are superficial and it's really the person inside that counts; the attitude, how they go through life, etc.. So, prettiness et., al., is just the wrapping and the bow on the package but who hangs onto all that once you open the package and get what's inside? THAT'S what counts so, it's just a plus if the wonderful gift inside comes with the pretty package, too. If it doesn't, it really shouldn't matter. I have yet to see my present girlfriend, mostly because she's painfully shy, as far as letting people see her, and I SUPPOSE she might even be scared that I'll reject her once I see what she looks like but, I seriously doubt that'll ever happen! I love HER!!! And, as I've said, how she looks doesn't really matter. I'm HOPING we'll be together forever no matter what!! I accept her as she is, lock, stock and barrel!!

[Lliam]

My ideal preferences are:
5'4" or shorter.
Cute face.
Pretty hair - preferably natural blonde, strawberry blonde, red or light brown.
Flawless, glabrous, peaches and cream skin.
Nice figure.
Fit, flexible, soft.
Medium boobs.
Flat stomach with just a bit of padding.
A waist to hip ratio of around 0.7
Round, tapered thighs - not thick or thin.
Petite hands and feet.
Clean and well groomed.

[Sugar100]

This is me but I’m not natural blonde , but I am blonde

[Lliam]

@Sugar100. Dang! Too bad I am old now and have been married for 30 years. LOL. You would have been just my type.

[Sugar100]

lol I walk around and no one cares to see me single and make me taken 😂

[Sugar100]

I assume no one likes a tiny blonde girl

[Sugar100]

Cute

[Lliam]

@Sugar100. How tall ARE you?

[gasman70]

@Sugar100 I'm sure lots of guys would like you

[Sugar100]

@gasman70 no because no guy cares make me taken woman forever. I walk and feel invisible. Men don’t want a tiny cute blonde girlfriend to talk to and date and spend life with 😔

[gasman70]

@Sugar100 you said that you're 5'4, that's actually average height, not short. I mean, you think that guys would not want to take you on for a long term relationship. I think you haven't met the right guy. Maybe I would be the right guy, who knows.

[Finchie40]

If she is beautiful to my eyes and she has a great personality and has good moral values , then that’s a girl I would consider dating for a relationship, I do love a girl that has beautiful eyes and a nice body , with nice boobs and ass 😂

[robocop666]

nope boobs and butt come along everything else disappears. your the same as us all. You could not say no to this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nxtIRArhVD4

[Finchie40]

I would say no if she is a straight up bitch , for me it takes more than just attraction for me to be interested in a girl. Just because a girl looks nice on the outside it doesn’t mean she is nice on the inside. I see beautiful girls’ all the time but if her personality sucks , I won’t be interested in her because her shitty personality makes her ugly to me.

[robocop666]

Jennifer Lopez is nice but a difficult person. Everyone knows this.

[robocop666]

ok but you'd like Desi Johnson https://www.youtube.com/shorts/DRxCuwhPRYs

[Finchie40]

They are nice to look at but again it takes more than just looks for me to be interested in her

[robocop666]

don't give in to good looks too easy. This can get you in serous trouble. See what she's like. Desi is hot and seems ok but JLO is a horrific person.

[AviatorTom]

She should be female, with all the parts in the right place, and be at least moderately healthy, not too skinny nor obesely overweight.

[KBird]

Self grooming. Do they clean/trim their beard? Do they take pride in their appearance?

I think that its a good indicator of self respect/self care, conscientiousness (valuing routine), independence, effort, and compatibility.

When Im looking for a relationship, I am looking for an equal. I want to be with someone who is an individual within our relationship, I can love and care for them, but they can take care of themselves. I dont want to have to baby someone.

[gasman70]

Funny, I've been told how wonderful I am on the inside, but I can't seem to find a date. I've heard many many many many women say they aren't into looks at all, that it's all about whats on the inside. sorry ladies, I'm not buying this. I've had so may women say this but you know who they are with, not me, they are with the jerky handsome guy... what gives?

[Chayce]

Gotta be rich & handsome, if you didn't find your girl early.

[gasman70]

@Chayce, Yep, that's the ticket, I found women early, they were just, dishonorable, like the majority of women, and men

[Chayce]

Same ways though if you go to Wal-Mart on a Saturday morning you'll see tons of regular looking people together. People usually date within their perceived SMV. And dating is a bell curve. It'll be easier at your age than mine because options are much smaller as you get older. At my age, any woman can get flown out to the other side of the world at a moment's notice.

[Sugar100]

I’m the same can’t find a date , and yes I agree u need be rich to find a partner.

[Anonymous]

someone with brains, warm heart and a good soul, also someone who's funny, who will respect me and my decisions, who will appreciate the time we spend together and give me the same amount of love that I am ready to give to them. no toxic traits, no red flags, no disrespect... I guess I'll die alone, after all. :D

[aceleon]

did you conveniently ignore the physical traits part?

[gasman70]

@aceleon you can always tell the ones who are full of it, the go overboard and won't ever admit that they are attracted to physical traits, I've met a million of em. Then the next thing you know, those same women are suddenly dating the handsome jerk

[Opinion Owner]

@aceleon yep

[gasman70]

see, they even admit it, that they ignored that part, that's because they aren't being honest with either us or themselves or both

[Opinion Owner]

@gasman70 I'm so sorry that you didn't have anything else to offer to those 1M ladies you met but your looks gasman70.
It's sad, really.

[aceleon]

girl i don't care what gets you off, i am only pointing the question is about physical traits so no, you are infact being dishonest in this question because you are saying entirely different things than what the question asks.

[Opinion Owner]

@aceleon did you ask the question?

[aceleon]

might as well at this point, since i had to bother with you and your cheeky behavior.

[Opinion Owner]

@aceleon you know you don't need to comment on every comment you see?

[aceleon]

you know that i can do whatever i want to? whatever i don't even know why you had to be so cringe about all of this, only thing you had to do is give some physical traits here and zip it but oyu haaaad to go and play the pick me with '' looks doesn't matter'' crap.

[Opinion Owner]

@aceleon I can also do whatever I want and say WHATEVER I want , you know...
and guys like you are actually the reason why I search for someone with brains, also someone who will respect me and my decisions and no red flags, and there you are, a RED FLAG commenting on my reply showing your toxicity here and disrespect towards my decision (comment) to say whatever the f I want.

[aceleon]

umm last i checked i never said i respected you, if i gave the impression i am so sorry sweetheart but NO, İ' don't respect you, i don't have to, i have no reason to especially considering you are a hypocrite who says she wants brains but chooses to answer a question about physicality with sentimentality. i don't even know where this free respect shit came from, why would i respect you? or anyone for that matter? for what reason? i don't even know you what reason do i have to respect you? you and most others mistake civility with respect, yes civility between strangers is common courtesy but respect? no, sorry sweetheart but no one owes anyone respect, it is earned and your decisions well you looking for brains is actually respectable since it is a wise decision but the place you ''decided'' to bring it up is, no, it is not respectable it is just putting square cube into a star shaped hole, it is not respectable.
toxic? red flag? someone follows too much pop culture, humans are not toxic sweetheart, we are not snakes. we don't carry flag either... at least i don't, i sometimes carry a red hankerchief but i doubt you could call it flag.
much love and no respect, ace.

[aceleon]

wow, i didn't realize i wrote this much, it sounded shorter in my head. well it seems like you make me talkative, an oversight on my part.

[Opinion Owner]

@aceleon Well, thank you for the demonstration. lol
I said I value a person with a heart and respect, and your response was essentially an entire essay explaining why you have no respect for strangers and why you don't feel the need to have any.
So I think we're done here. You’re free to think and do whatever you want, and I’m equally free to decide that your attitude is exactly the kind of thing I don't want in a partner or around me.
And yes, I answered the question the way I wanted to. Not every question about attraction requires a long shopping list of body parts.
Apparently, that’s your preferred currency anyway. ;)
With even less respect,
ANoN

[aceleon]

it wasn't a question about attraction it was about PHYSİCAL attraction. hence why i feel no respect for you, you are not even able to answer a basic question without sticking out like a sore thumb. it is basicly being a pick me.
NOTE: there is no even lesser than none
NOTE 2: i decided no love either since i am supposedly heartless in your eyes.
with no love and respect
Ace.

[Opinion Owner]

@aceleon Aaaaanyway… wanna buy me a drink? lol

[aceleon]

only if it is whiskey, anything other than that is a personal insult.

[Opinion Owner]

@aceleon sounds good to me :)

[gasman70]

its funny, I actually said the opposite but who understands English anyway

[gasman70]

here's the thing, that goes both ways, people can also say and do whatever they want to you, even nasty things. sadly, I'm the type of person who likes to make people feel good and they take advantage of that, and now I'm starting to get angry about it.

[aceleon]

@gasman70 umm dude, you DO realize that what you wrote comes as notification to me too, right?

[gasman70]

@aceleon no, I did not

[gasman70]

@aceleon I'll try harder next time. my apologies bro

[Opinion Owner]

@gasman70 I actually understood what you said, but decided to answer with sarcasm.

[aceleon]

@gasman70 don't sweat about it. also friendly advice, if people takes advantage of this... then don't make them happy? it is always an option yo know?

[gasman70]

no, you decided to be passive aggressive to make a point, big difference between sarcasm and being passive aggressive. If you were being sarcastic you would have made statement about how my personality was something not worth anything, passive aggressive is purposefully changing the entire subject. The more you know, just like when I said, English, who understands it, that's sarcasm.

[Opinion Owner]

@gasman70 in translation , I said "you didn't have anything to offer to those ladies, not even your looks"
thank youuuuu <3

[gasman70]

@aceleon you're right, thanks bro, you're the man!

[aceleon]

@gasman70 don't mention it, just don't bother yourself with shits that doesn't matter.

[gasman70]

@aceleon thanks, awesome advice.

[Sugar100]

Height 5”5 to 6ft “2

hair brown or blonde

eyes brown or green / hazel

slim no muscle

fair skin

dresses elegant and fashionable and wears beanies , nerdy glasses okay

[RingOfFire]

beanies? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

From experience, there is no clear physical traits I'm looking for, when I'm really interested in the girl I'm talking with her physical traits gradually become those that I like

[NathanDavis]

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Voilà c'est ça, sans l'aspect changement de sexe par contre

[OneViewpoint]

• Fitness.
• A sense of style.
• Good grooming.
• Pretty face.
• Nice hair.
• On overall well proportioned body.

[Chayce]

I like em all types. For a wife, I'm not looking for drastic proportions on them. Regular brazziere, regular ass. I like nice legs though. Someone ideally not taller than like 5'8. Athletic build.

[aceleon]

something like this

[gasman70]

she's hot, but here's the real deal. You would be attracted to her, you would be with her, but if she was a super cunt, you would break up, eventually. you have to find a balance, unless you're a hot guy yourself or have a lot of money and or power. you'll have to go for your equivalent in looks and hope you find a gal who will accept you for you and not try to change you, and make you her project, too much.

[aceleon]

@gasman70 umm dude, my literal face is in my pp so you decide it (also this girl is not someone you would wanna date i just used her to describe my preferences in looks) though it wouldn't be fair since let's be honest most guys unless they talk about models won't acknowledge or even realize a guy is a looker so i doubt you would find me as an ''hot guy'' as you put it (and it is prefereable since neither of us swings that way i pressume) also money doesn't mean shit, it only means she will stay for money not me and i don't even want a relationship, me being a straight dude doesn't mean i want to be with someone other than sexually.

[gasman70]

being hot only describes looks

[aceleon]

@gasman70 so?

[gasman70]

you said, this woman is good looking but she isn't someone you would want to date. I said I was only talking about looks, the reason, I can't talk to her to assess her personality.

[aceleon]

@gasman70 oh i was talking about you mentioning me wanting her, i thought you were asking i wanted her specificly or someone like her.

[queenofcardio]

Ideally at least somewhat taller because I feel so short

Average build

[browsingthroughthe]

Simple and straightforward

[browsingthroughthe]

I like that 😀

[gasman70]

someone who is more honest

[Anonymous]

Looks are not what is important to me. But let's play along.

For me I pay attention to a woman's ass, legs and stomach if going purely on physical traits. Those can be worked on in the gym.

[blshbnz]

Tall with a nice back and muscles not like body builder type just them being healthy and looking healthy honestly.

[Lesbologist]

Not fat, not going to be fat anytime soon... no drugs or illness. Preferably healthy as hell.

[Laws-Of-Existence]

Is Instagram blogging a mental illness, or you can cure them from that?

[Lesbologist]

@Laws-Of-Existence Yes it's a form of mental illness unless you think narcisistic thirst trapping while not even getting paid for it is awesome as fuck. There is a concept... glaze the shit out of them for what they're doing and then analize how retarded it sounds. My low opinion of it is only going to get worse if said blogging is some serious retardation delving into the depths of being retarded.

[Laws-Of-Existence]

If they're blogging about being lesbian then you could surely cure them.

[Lesbologist]

@Laws-Of-Existence Now... if they're talking about doing the scissors with their girlfriends, you might have someone blogging where I'm going to read that shit with interest. But isn't that just another thirst trap doing what thirst traps do? I won't cure her... I'm going to tept her to be even worse.

[Laws-Of-Existence]

Lesbologists are supposed to cure lesbianism.

[Lesbologist]

@Laws-Of-Existence No... we infect lesbianism.

[Anonymous]

I'm not too picky but definitely sexy legs/thighs. As in the entire leg but the thighs are definitely my main focus. Short shorts and flip flops are the best combo for me to maximize bare leg exposure.

[MrChinaski]

History suggests I look for women of a healthy weight with at least mid-length hair. That seems to be the only common themes.

Non-physical traits matter more.

[browsingthroughthe]

A woman in her fit 20s with attractive looks and an even more attractive warm personality 👁️👁️ to match

😋👌🏻

[browsingthroughthe]

Short, petite, big tits, big butt - all naturally genetic 🧬🧬😊

[gasman70]

honesty

[Kelly56825]

Looks may catch my attention, but personality and the way he treats people are what keep me interested.

[rapfan107]

What catches your attention looks wise?

[NathanDavis]

physically active... preferably

healthier, of course

[gasman70]

honesty

[NathanDavis]

@gasman70 yeah, if they are honest... that's good too

[Joshydavid25]

I'm a pretty simple guy.. For me, it more of not being fat or skinny, having a cute face, and roundness in the booty..

[rgb008]

Gotta be a sexy person.
Gotta be the lock to my key.
Gotta be confident

Must like apple cider

[gasman70]

crazy, but honest, I like it, at least you aren't hiding behind bs.

[rgb008]

@gasman70 I am very honest. and apple cider is deliciouuussss so he has to like it

[gasman70]

ok, a little different, but I get it if like something that you're super into. I like apples and apple cider, but i'm not obesessed with it.

[agaba]

heiiiii you how are i would wish u chart wi9th me kevniii

[Fromdusktilldawn]

She should have a cute face and super sweet smile, not overly obese but also not skinny as a pole. I tend like chicks with some hips and curves sometimes more

[Sevenpointfive]

i like girls with symmetrical faces and aren't fat. but i'm not really the partner type.

[zagor]

They should make me want to have sex with them.

[rapfan107]

So like fit?

[zagor]

Definitely. Fit, healthy, not too extreme in height, nice face. I'm not into the big boob/butt thing at all. Give me a girl who can walk a few miles through the hills.

[gasman70]

what does that even mean exactly?

[zagor]

@gasman70 I mean a girl I can take skiing, biking, kayaking, without bringing along a cardiologist. Unless of course she is one.

[Laulenke]

For me it would be whoever can put up with me and what I di sometimes lol
Yes my wife does and I’m use to her rolling her eyes at me most the time too lol

[LiamJHayden]

Lack of morbid obesity. I won't reject her for things not under her control like height, hair, skin, or eye color, or other physical traits.

[Alex-Snow]

Their eyes, how well they take care of their body/hygiene and their smile

[MysticDevice]

Tall and slender, preferably blonde but not a dealbreaker if not.

[scott04sa22]

I'm not eligible for having any partners since I don't meet the requirements of datings.

[msc545]

Tall, thin, blonde, medium to long hair, educated, has a functioning brain

[Eleni920]

On guy nice abs, big guns, great head of hair, on a woman nice breast.

[Anonymous]

I prefer avg. all natural looking women like Kim Kardashian

[ava_90]

Physically , tall
, fit body,
light dark skin
Beautiful eyes
Smiling person

[gasman70]

ahhh, honesty, refreshing

[Deserter3]

Pretty, must have a biological vagina, nice, not retarded, fun

[RavVid]

Slenderness and an oval face

[exitseven]

physical fitness.

[Agape93]

A pulse

[blackeagle007]

😆 agreed, alive is most important

[gasman70]

I feel you

[AngryCarl3]

bobs and vagene

[FreyaRed]

Back and butt

[rapfan107]

Muscular back?

[RingOfFire]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X53ZSxkQ3Ho

[Pterodon]

That she was born with a pussy and still has it

[Darkest-Knight]

A firm round butt.

[JamesRandiDebates]

Squishy tits and a tight snatch.

[robocop666]

boobs and butt

[Tranquility_Lady]

Nice face and body

[bradyhawkesjr73]

BIG BOOBS !!!

[agaba]

ooooh wow