If you someone has a history of problematic, unsuccessful relationships, are they to blame?

[Anonymous]

You meet someone who is complaining non stop about their exes. He acts like all his exes were the problem, not him. Loves airing his grievances out for the world to see. Don't you think he might be the problem since he's the common denominator out of all his bad relationships? People learn how to pick better after a disastrous relationship but apparently not everyone learns from their mistakes

[Anonymous]

If it's a woman, almost most assuredly.

If it's a guy, odds are it's probably still his fault.

I'm not saying thos women weren't the problem. But understand it goes like this. Women fail with relationships because they're metally handicapped from the start. They use feelings rather than logic to choose partners the vast majority the time. You don't have to be a rocket scientist to know is all you have to be good at telling a woman what she already knows she wants to hear and you're in.

Conversely, men have logic. And as long as we're not being rule by our "southern head" we have the good sense to use it and steer clear. But some men are slow learners. Some men fall for that whol wounded bird routine from women. Guys learn women feminine wiles. And wile we may be humoring you. We're already getting ready to ghost you. Because we've seen this game before. And this is the point. Generall t by their 30's a guy has sing just about e ery trick that's in a woman's bag. This is why very few women can get over on an experienced guy after 30.

But as i said. Men are EXPECTED to figure out a woman's nonsense. B**** ni**as complain about it. Real ni**as own it abd don't complain. Because real ni**as say to themselves she got over on me. Then they remember it. They commit it to memory. And good luck any other woman trying that trick on him again.

This is why you hear so many women complain about men not doing this or not doing this. And the claiming he's a b**** or he has no confidence. Or he's not a real man. No hun. He just saw you coming a mile away.😆 he know's your game. There's just no reason for him to tell you he knows your game. If you annoy him enough he will tell you to f*** off.😆 But till then a man is alwaya in control. And these women are upset because these men just know what's up. That's all.

[Nikki1989]

Men rarely admit to their mistakes. They will almost, always deflect the blame onto the woman. You can read examples of this phenomenon here every day.

[NathanDavis]

not blame but responsibility, in part... relationships are of two, not one sided

blaming is pointless

[abc3643]

[OneViewpoint]

It sounds like you have this guy figured out. Run...

[scott04sa22]

I guess people sees me as problematic when I have my downs. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Anonymous]

You can safely assume he was part of it not working, but he lacks the self-awareness to realise it.

[Iron_Man]

it wasn’t my fault

[WhitneySnow]

Yes!