Do you think you can find a wife in 2026?

[Anonymous]

One that will actually stick it out with you.

It seems women are only encouraged by society to put their happiness, their independence, freedom over everything and everyone. The risks in marriage are too high for the man. If a woman divorces him he is wrecked and women don’t show the signs of being able to compromise with you, stand by you when things get tough.

Our mothers had husband’s that would treat them poorly sometimes and still stick by them. Now women can’t tolerate anything. They don’t have realistic standards.

They expect a perfect unicorn 🦄 man and a relationship that doesn’t exist.

Yea you can

No you can’t

A total of 9 votes were cast: 1 girls and 8 guys. See detailed results

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1 mo

For women it’s all about never settle, get a career, you deserve better, just have fun, put yourself first, you don’t need a man

[Anonymous]

Do men care about how a woman’s skin looks? At 41 I’m still single and never had a real boyfriend. I look very young and get a lot of attention but I have this keratosis pilaris skin condition that basically I have a lot of red and brown dots mostly all over my body.

I’ve always wanted to to to get married but I’m scared someone will see me naked and not want me anymore.

you may think what does this have to do with your question?

well I’m talking to this man for 8 months now he’s from another country and I’m about to meet him in about 3 weeks

I am so nervous

he was also married before and had a kid with the woman, she is Russian so I’m assuming she has perfect nice skin and I’m scared to be compressed to her

she is exactly the type you are referring to here

she married him only to divorce him and put him on child support. She doesn’t even let him see his own daughter but takes all his money

she’s always all fixed up with Botox and injections, colored hair and all this glamour

anyway

I do want to get married and stand by whomever my husband will be.. maybe him?

but realistically asking do men care how a woman’s skin looks? Even if he’s super nice and has the best intentions, will this be a reason to not really want to stay with me?

I know not all men are the same but for the most part most do feel the same in the way you’re attracted to women and who you wouldn’t stay with etc

and I didn’t tell him I have this

most people don’t know

I wear long sleeves all the time and pants.

the times I wear skirts or dresses I wear stockings or use self tanners to cover the dots :/

I also have a slight bunion in my feet which I hate.

am

i nit wife material because of this?

men prefer the ones with perfect skin and perfect feet even if they get put on child support etc

because men are mostly visual right? and even when you say anything you’ve said and complained about you’d still go for a woman like that because someone like me would be far from ideal?

[Anonymous]

"
It seems women are only encouraged by society to put their happiness, their independence, freedom over everything and everyone."

so you are saying women should give up their happiness, independence, freedom so they can marry you?

haha doesn't sound like you have a woman's best interests at heart

[Asker]

Women have to be realistic relationships are difficult but it’s all for the greater good. You can’t be all hedonistic

[Opinion Owner]

@Asker

that's not how human beings operate. human beings are designed to want the best for themselves. Just the same way how you want a woman to give up her happiness to marry you.

[Asker]

That’s not what I said. Again this is how twisted women are.
It’s about recognising marriage can be hard for both men and women but your supposed to do it anyway and not be a selfish waste of space and actually go through some hardships.

Imagine if men only did what made them happy, play video games all day etc…

[Opinion Owner]

re read my original answer to this question. you are IMPLYING that by marrying you, a woman needs to give up her own happiness. so why would a woman give up her own happiness to make you happy?

marriage is not equally as hard on women as men. Men benefit from marriage, women do not.

Married men live longer; married women, not so much: Study

torontosun.com/.../married-men-live-longer-married-women-not-so-much-study

[Asker]

I mean I’d rather they boycott marriage entirely but women are the ones that are like you need to marry me to have kids.
Men get wrecked through divorce. I am a man who also enjoys very much being single. But it’s not the optimum way to live, you will have to give up some of that joy to be with someone.

[Asker]

The problem is that marriage is a legal contract and women are liabilities the second they are unhappy they are not resilient enough to fight through the issue they just give up because it’s hard. Women can’t do anything difficult for the greater good of a wonderful family.

I’ve been in relationships and yeah women suck, complain about bullshit, overly sensitive and entitled. You think women are that great? They sre the ones that expect a unicorn these days

[Likes2drive]

Not a loyal one, these days, they only look at marriage as a business for them, not for love

[Alex-Snow]

I think so bit then again at this time in my life I'm not looking for a wife.

[Nikki1989]

I met my husband in 2009. Almost everyone else I know is either married or planning on being married in the next year. Just because you are missing out doesn't mean it doesn't happen for people.

[MzAsh]

What exactly are you expecting women to tolerate?

[queenofcardio]

You won't with that attitude

[NathanDavis]

I think I'll wait till 2027...

[Anonymous]

I got one. she's a good one.

[zagor]

No, but then I'm not looking for one.