Do you see marriage in your future?

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JackSmy · Accepted Answer

Unlikely!! I have rather High standards, and few come close to being one that I would consider!
Not that I am "SO GREAT" but what do most women offer? Pretentious clothes, gaudy baubles, from their ears and around their necks? Make up, LITERALLY HIDING their physical body! Spanx, heals, hair extensions?
Are there ANY, that ARE REAL? I see so many, just FAKE, and with nothing else, but their image!!
How do I find any interest in that, when she is so FAKE, she has no opinions, but what Fox News, CNBC tells her?
I want a woman WHO IS REAL!! No make-up, not clothing labels, NO BULLSHIT AND LIES!!
A REAL PERSON, with her own ideas, her own feelings, and she KNOWS she is at least my EQUAL, and acts like IT!!
by the way, she wouldn't need, or expect "marriage" because she understands, and doesn't need some bullshit paper, for TRUE LOVE.

HairyPoppins · Accepted Answer

I would say probably not in my near future as I am building my empire. I have plenty of time for marriage and kids so yes one day one day.

she_asks_and_answers · Accepted Answer

I would like to say yes, but with most of the men not wanting a commitment, it seems grim for me to even get a boyfriend. My last boyfriend spoke of marriage and kids, showed me a church in his home country where we can have a second wedding at, spoke of wedding rings, we were looking at homes with a realtor and then hours after saying that he is so happy to be with me and can't wait for our life together... turned and told me he can't do this relationship anymore and called everything off. So... yea a bit off topic but... I dont know if it's in my future now... in my opinion, guys aren't interested in that anymore...:(

PaynefulPleasures · Accepted Answer

Nope not ever, divorced the 1st one ,& the 2nd hubby passed away. So I've gotten everything out of my system ✌️

Brainsbeforebeauty · Answer

I tried looking into my crystal ball for the answer, but then remembered I broke it last time it was wrong 🤣, so winging my answer and going with highly doubtful...

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Nope. I’ve known since my early single digits. Granted there have been a couple times where I briefly thought, “Holy shit, I am actually getting married…” because they seemed so resolute in wish to do so with me only to do an about face. I long ago reasoned some of us are to die single. I made peace with that long ago. Now I just wish women would cease entering my world and momentarily making me believe otherwise then abruptly end things. Though, since my last I seem to have been keeping women at a safe friendzone distance. It helps by not remotely giving them an once of appearance of interest so they don’t begin to entertain the idea in their own heads too. In my having been this way lately, it has been interesting as I keep getting dinners made for me by women lately. Again last night even. That rarely ever happened prior to my natural indifference. Meh.

Anonymous · Answer

My whole life, my thoughts on marriage have always been... IF I find the right person, I'd love to get married, but I'm not going to get married just for the sake of getting married. So many people get married just because it seems like the next step, or because of societal or family pressure. A lot of people also get married too young in my opinion. I'm a very different person now that I was in my early to mid 20s.

This probably sounds terrible, but if you had asked me if I saw marriage with any of my previous boyfriend's, the honest answer would have been no. Now, I've been with my current boyfriend for almost 1.5 years and a few of my friends have asked me, "Do you think you'll end up marrying him someday?" And for the first time in my life, I could honestly say yes.

MCheetah · Answer

Not at all. I used to, once upon a time. Back when I actually thought I stood a chance with modern women. I was so naive back then. Even in the one in a trillion shot I find an attractive, high quality woman who loves me 100% exactly for who I am, I still doubt I'd actually marry her. And even IF I was drugged and intoxicated enough to actually go ahead with it, I'd 100% be getting a prenup, no matter how much money she or I made, or if she was rich compared to me. I just don't see any benefits in childless couples getting married, especially for the man.

Inexpensivefurniture · Answer

Mmm, maybe. I'm open to it, I love the idea of wearing a ring so everyone knows I'm devoted to someone, and the thought of being called someone's husband has a nice sounds to it.
I just have a hard time picturing it, you know? Maybe it's cause I'm young and inexperienced, or maybe it's cause I haven't dated in 3 years. It's just hard to imagine getting to that point with someone, but I think I'd like to be married. It's not a goal of mine but if that's where my life leads, I'm happy with that

Anonymous · Answer

No. I don't even want a relationship, but can see nothing good coming from having a legal contract binding us together (and don't even get me started on how much the possibility of having to deal with a divorce vs. a simple breakup is not worth it), or dealing with shared possessions.

Anonymous · Answer

I have no idea tbh, here in the middle east it's a standard life path to follow but I am moving to west next year, and I have a long way to go there, starting from zero. I hope I will meet someone nice regardless of me getting married or just staying with him.

Citizenkirk · Answer

Sure, though I'm not betting on being best man, or even part of the lucky couple's wedding party. I'll be happy just to be invited to attend the ceremony and eat a slice of 99.9% processed sugar wedding cake 😂🎂😳🍰🤤!

Mofunfour20 · Answer

no because most women today want you to value them more than your purpose. Im too busy to simp like that, time is too valuable. If I find a peaceful woman who forgave her mother and has the capacity to support my purpose then yes.

Anonymous · Answer

Got married 2 weeks ago! Still feels unreal though 😅

richardsnarky · Answer

I don’t even know at this point. Men don’t seem interested in committing to me.

just_a_potato · Answer

I definitely want to be married in the next 8 years, I can wait longer of course but that's my ideal. I court. Lol

Youryeodongsaeng · Answer

Yes and no. I'm never too optimistic about my future. I'm the person that is like, "whatever goes, goes."

ArrowheadSW · Answer

"Probably" not... I've gone this long so I'm not sure why it would happen now. But there is the saying, "Never say never"...

CrypticViper · Answer

I actually do. I wasn't planning on it or getting engaged for a long time. But both my daughters and my grandmother are all set on this idea of me getting married. It was my grandma that actually passed a ring that my grandpa gave her before he passed and told me that it'd make a fabulous engagement ring, and that she remembered my sister and now fiance mentioning that it was really beautiful when they were younger.

MLGbreezy · Answer

Hell no the woman out here haven't shown they are even worth dating, the toxicity is ridiculous. And marriage? That's basically like handing over all (and of it doesn't work out) your happiness vto a psychopath on top of half of any thing else the brings you joy in life. Nah I'm good.

DeltaCharlieEcho · Answer

I wish I could say that I did but I feel like the unrealistic standards of women as to what defines a quality man make it very unlikely in the country I live in now. Honestly I can’t even say that I see a future for myself anymore.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

Sure... talking about it. Just moved in, need to settle down first. One step at a time.

BCRanger10 · Answer

I am married now and will be until death should part us 😊 So... I guess yes?

Omario2049 · Answer

ABSOLUTELY... if these modern women can get their act together and stop fucking every breathing degenerate and start behaving like respectable ladies. Ain't no desirable man trying to wife up no community bicycle. Also if they could also keep the weight off, that would be awesome.

Julielamar2 · Answer

No, god preserve me from falling into the euphoria of love and the marriage trap lol

Aquariusmystery · Answer

Yes. I don’t want to settle for someone who doesn’t want marriage. And I have rules for my marriage too

The_Maphio · Answer

We don't think so. But you never know if we might get any use of our relationship lawful officialization.
The option is always there, but we dont' feel the need to go through useless ceremonies to state that we love each other.

Iron_Man · Answer

I don't think so with the way women are these days it's a million-to-one shot that it would even last

Ninjazzed · Answer

They never stick around unless you’re putting out, so I think this one checks itself out.

little_rose · Answer

Maybe, maybe not. lol  I take life as it is. I guess we'll see.

Anonymous · Answer

Is there a punchline somewhere?

rievious · Answer

I hope so. I don't know if I found the right one yet but one day I hope I do get married and have kids.

Anonymous · Answer

If it happens great and if it does not happen also great. I don't necessarily need to get married in order to feel fulfilled or something.

Asianguy123 · Answer

girls still dream about their princess wedding. I don't know. Men can get some help on moorage from their wife's income. I mean... I just heard in the news that quarter of young couples thinking of no child. I guess there are too many population so it's natural going that way I think. They still want to get married though.

JoeyG_7048 · Answer

NO BUT THAT'S FOR ME, MARRIAGE COULD BE A GOOD THING FOR PEOPLE HOWEVER I JUST WOULDN'T BE I'M GOOD BUT I LIKE TO BE LEFT ALONE. THAT'S NOT SAYING MARRIAGE IS A BAD THING I'M JUST ANSWERING THE QUESTION ON MY OPINION FOR ME

ShadezMcgee · Answer

I would like that in the future, but it has to be with the right woman. No way in hell is that an option with the wrong woman. Penalties are way too high as a guy if the marriage ended badly.

HawkPerception · Answer

Yes. It's been a dream my whole life to propose to a girl in my ideal way and to have the dream wedding I always wanted. I swear I'm not a high school girl lmfao

BUNroaster · Answer

Very rarely. But most likely no. Thinking of doing peace Corp. Curious about that life

IAMNathanael · Answer

The way I see it

kevyhanma · Answer

No way women are way too selfish the don’t want men they want servants

TDDMS · Answer

It would be nice, but considering how toxic American women are plus how marriage laws give women an overwhelming financial and legal advantage, it's not worth it.

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

No. I don't view it as necessary for commitment.

JDavid25 · Answer

Yes, I want a beautiful wife and kids.. I still need to get myself together though before all that.

S_is_me · Answer

I don't even see myself being in a relationship, so no

jamesgoldman · Answer

No, who would want the last boomer heaped with medical conditions who spends most of his time working but gets nothing to show for it

NoLookingAtSoleil · Answer

That's the idea/plan - I do want children of my own, and for that to be in a framework of raising them/giving them (and her) a home and maximum safety/security, marriage seems an obvious way to go.

aqua13 · Answer

Yes. Definitely. Indian girl , so , it's a given. And I am waiting for it.

exitseven · Answer

Yes, I have been married for 25 years and I see at least another 50 being married.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

I did, at one point. I'm not even sure my relationship will last till Christmas at the mo.

Anonymous · Answer

when i turn 45 or 50, have a few kids and have my career established then ill be ready

Alyssa11 · Answer

Well I like to hope so.

beebella · Answer

No, but I wouldn't mind having a "life partner."

legalboxers · Answer

Nope.. why? She dont fucking exist! Patience maybe a virtue, but its like waiting for something which won't happen

shouldnobetter · Answer

I don't know about the FUTURE, since I am already married. and it's been 47 years. So unless something major happens there won't be another.

kitkills · Answer

Marriage is a social construct built for fascists and racist christian breeders

Tiptoetamm · Answer

Have been married 8 years together 11

KrakenAttackin · Answer

I would put a shotgun in my mouth before getting married again.

NEOTUNIA2U · Answer

Perhaps, if I find the one.

silvermoon84 · Answer

I hope so but if not, whatever

Anonymous · Answer

No. I don’t want to spend the rest of my life with one man tbh, sounds boring. Most mariages end in divorce and men change for the worse after getting married.

nacholibre94 · Answer

Open to it happening, happy even if it doesn't

Saville_Row · Answer

Never say never, haha.

InferiorElegy · Answer

No, I don't even see a future passed my 35birthday.

McKellar · Answer

As much as that would be nice,... I don't know anymore.

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