Is three months too soon for a widow to join a dating site?

[Anonymous]

She told me she was widowed and I looked it up and he just died in July. I feel like that’s not a long period of mourning.

[OlderAndWiser]

Depends on how long they were married and whether the last years were solid or tempestuous.

[NathanDavis]

everyone's different...

but the last one to tell how soon or not, that's us... complete and absolute strangers to their situation, lol

it's also true that some marriages do end way before divorce or a death, and both have moved on ahead of it

[Nikki1989]

Quality people don't need or use dating apps.

And three months—that is a damn long time. I am moving on after three days... or less.

[Anonymous]

Yes that is way too soon unless she's 20 or something.

[Anonymous]

Even 1 day of mourning is long enough if she didn't truly love him.

[Staximus]

The lonely widow needs a good stoking of the old firebox to get her fires burning hot again, now get to work

[AgentG111]

Even they are ready absolutely not!

[Anonymous]

It’s up to her. Grief is a private thing.

[Alex-Snow]

Everyone is different and it is her choice

[Anonymous]

Who are you to decide for her?