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I have never met a man who makes me want to love and feel loved by him. I look at a cat's adorable face and I want to hug him, kiss him and take care of him. I look at a man and...
I feel nothing; he doesn't trigger my caregiving instinct and he doesn't bring as much affection into my life as a cat can.
I'm sure I'm a straight woman; the thought of kissing another woman disgusts me, but I fantasise about imaginary men and I find men's bodies attractive.
I'm starting to believe I have such a deep need for adorableness and pureness only a cat can emotionally make me happy. A man isn't as adorable and pure as a cat.
I'm genuinely suffering.
Men think I hate them, and I laugh when they think I hate them; they don't understand that I don't and they don't understand I actively wish I liked them, I even try to force myself to like them.
Hating men doesn't make my life better, so why would I?
If you want to understand how I feel, imagine living on an alternative Earth where women are simply designed in a way that makes you sad; imagine you live on an alternative Earth where every woman is a monster inside and out, you look out of the window and realise the beautiful woman inside and out you're thinking of doesn't even exist and is a ghost.
Looks aren't the reason why I'm unhappy with men, I made you imagine a different Earth where every woman is ugly inside and out just to make you feel the desolation I feel.
I know it's possible that someone out there can make me happy, but he's so rare that knowing he exists doesn't make me feel better; he's too difficult to find, and if our relationship goes wrong, I'll have to go through a thousand messages again just to have another possibility. At that point it's so exhausting I'm unhappy anyway.
What's funny is that some (many) men are angry at me, they say: ''Gurl, you're attractive and life is on easy mode for you.'' They're clueless.
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Probably because females’ are just like cats , by the way they behave 😂 it’s been talked about for years’ the similarities between cats and females’ so you might love how cats resemble yourself 😂 just my guess 😂
I think your standards are way too high. You're waiting for some perfect man who probably doesn't even exist lol. If you can't find him in Italy, where the hell is he, on Mars?
I also think flirting and connecting with people come more naturally to some than others. If you come across as cold or distant, that's not gonna help either.
And you say cats are better, but nobody would date a guy who sleeps 16 hours a day lol. Maybe the real issue is that you struggle to connect with people.
But I'm not waiting for the perfect man.
I'm only saying that men are emotionally mediocre.
Maybe you're just a bit distant and struggle to connect with people socially.
Weren't you a software developer? Maybe it's an occupational hazard.
Disney romance is just not viable. You are looking for someone to make you happy.
Happiness is really an internal quality. Some things can make you happy momentarily :- a new dress, a new car, a new restaurant etc. Or a new man/woman.
But they can't you happy forever. That's the crock with Disney romance - the happily ever after part.
It is for us to be happy on the inside.
You entirely missed the point and your comment is a perfect example of the one of the reasons I don't like men: poor emotional intelligence.
not every guy is like that. There are a few that possess a good deal of emotional intelligence. Many may not look the part.
I feel that way about women. Good on you. Forget about men, you're right about us. There have always been various monks or nuns hermits who were celibate. I chose celibacy too and it's awesome. All I'm missing is suffering and probably various diseases. Keep doing what you're doing.
The question is weird but I am going to admit it makes sense 😄
Cats are magnificent creatures who give you affection feelings.. I wish I was a cat..
I am not sure what is going on with you. Some people just seem to not need attachments.
I do want emotional attachment.
Then you just have not found the right guy.
Yes, but I'm not saying I simply haven't found the right man, it's a bigger issue.
Sometimes you have to let your guard down and let another person into your life. Yes it is one of the scariest things you can do but without that vulnerability you cannot really have a relationship.
I am not sure if it is displaying trust or it is mutually assured destruction.
Well, romance is definitely more of a problem. My cats, Allister, Angus, and Angel, will attest to this. So will I.
In all seriousness, I find a tremendous amount of satisfaction and love with my cats, and right now in my life, not so much with women. But I hold out the possibility that perhaps someday some woman will come along, and I will feel safe enough to try to have just a little romance.
Maybe you need a Cat man, like that one guy from the rock band Kiss. 🤷♂️ 😂
They are angry because they are beneath your league.
Then it’s high time to talk to a professional.
You’re aromantic (but probably not asexual)
Come on give a good man a chance
I am not a cat lover