Well, I kissed this girl that I really like but I don't think I'm down to commit, I have super high standards for committing, but besides that she's wonderful, beautiful inside and out, but she has a boyfriend, and we ended up kissing the other night even though she had a boyfriend, she enjoyed it but felt a little bad afterward because her boyfriend is a sweet. I'm think I should either...
A) Stop interfering with her relationship.
B) Interfere with here relationship, but not commit afterwards.
C) Remain the 'the guy on the side'
(I'm totally okay with this, it's better than not committing and letting her down
Most Helpful Girl
An innocent kiss that was unintended, though not RIGHT is harmless and her realtionship can rebound from that. BUT.. if you don't want to commit THEN Dont. MOVE on, there are plenty of single girls.
She sounds like a mess right now, she's conflicted and doesn't know what she wants.
If she's breaks up with him, then go for it be her rebound. BUT know that the likely hood of a rebound being anything that lasts, wont. IF you really think she is great, then if she does break up... take your time be her friend and encourage her to go have a little fun and work into YOUR realationship with her.
If you found the right girl you would COMMIT too, you would not want her to be kissing around.
Have respect for what he is trying to do, she needs to respsect what she has or get out.
DONT be a douche and be the guy on the side, your better than that,2