I feel like the few relationships I have been in led me away from my own path as I was more worried about providing for her needs. When I am single I am more focused on things I want to achieve personally. Also it seems like the more I progress toward my goals, the more women I have to choose from. It seems women there are women always available to me, but my goals are more important. I feel like I am always choosing between my goals in life and the personal satisfaction of a relationship.
I am thinking I want to settle down soon, but I am also worried I won't go as far in my career if I do it too soon.
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you're responsible for your own future, don't blame your short comings on us.
Women aren't accessories and commodities, if your only purpose in forming relationships is to use that person (whatever gender) to enhance your life and give you pleasure then everyone is holding you back
Friends, will sometimes need your assistance, need you to listen to their problems and devote time and energy to caring about them when you could be focusing on your personal goals,
And family, what a pain in the ass they are, they ll regularly interrupt your life plans by having the audacity to get sick, get in trouble and occasionally die.
Really the only way to stay focused on you is to do away with human relationships altogether or just practise being an a**hole.1