He says he likes things the way they are right now
We agreed that we are exclusive and that it would really bother him if I dated other guys. He's not going to be dating anyone else either.
He said right now he doesn't want to put a label on anything, this is the first time he's done it this way, as he says with all his other relationships he rushed head first, top speed into them and they didn't work out.
Its only been two weeks, and we agreed that we aren't seeing anyone but each other, he also said that in a few months we'd probably be dating(bf/gf labels ect) but right now he doesn't want to label it.
What are your thoughts?
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So I literally was in the EXACT same relationship situation recently in fact I almost asked if u were in Michigan too. Lol (*sad sigh) He even made me diners. Sleepovers, movies but after 5 weeks was not ready for the label until what he said was "a month or two down the road". Which at the time seemed reasonable. And yes he wanted to be exclusive right away even before then.
Here's the catch 22. THIS BEHAVIOR IS VERY CONFUSING bc youbare already acting like a couple but not? Second bc it's exclusive your investing your time in one guy when you could be going on OUTSIDE diner dates, movies etc with other guys.
And by the way this guy ended up hurting me BIG time just one day faded me out and eventually ghosting me outta no where. Be CAREFUL there a whole breed of guys out there to be wary of. And i. e
He was 28. Your age. Good luck sister