Guys just don't invest much in women like they used to. (Page 3)

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Do you guys not like to chase girls anymore? I notice more and more that most guys nowadays just don't invest much in women like they used to. Do you think its because we make it too easy for y'all? there's no real challenge? Maybe girls throw themselves at most guys too much?  I feel girls are chasing guys now that guys have lost that want to pursue or chase us when we leave. Not all guys but most just rather the girl make things happen. What's up with this? I blame us, to b honest with you.

RibRobz3 · Answer

I used to but stopped because she had control over me and I looked dumb chasing her around all the time. but I guess most guys think like I do or been through a situation were they didn't like to chase girls.

gacuskater · Answer

i basicly don't chase girls anymore because it gets anoying for both us and them, and really if someone needs 2 be chased than it means they don't like you so I just take it has a no, and move on, plus its easyer if girls make the move

macintire · Answer

guys just stop caring..if a girl is making it too hard or connfusing we just say forget it.. we move on and look for some1 else... we are inpatient and don't like the games some girls play... we are more direct

SemiShy · Answer

Women can't really resist me so it's kinda hard for me to chase them. XD

shf84 · Answer

Your living in a fairer more equal society where the onus is no longer on the men to do all the work. Women chase men and men chase women equally. Only a low life bigot would want it any other way.

Anonymous · Answer

If you want to know the truth, the truth is simple, we all started as chasers but then we found that girls are not really attracted to chasers, so when our hearts got broken we learned the lesson and changed that.

wraite · Answer

I don,t chase shadows if I know I,m not going to get nowhere with her cool there,s plenty left all over the place, but from what I see these days ALOT girls are low class,stuck up stupid as well.

Anonymous · Answer

We haven't become lazy. You women are being sluts and are giving us the option to put less time in getting a woman that pleases us. There's hardly any woman out there that challenges guys.

Mugenschool · Answer

I myself believe that the guy should still at least take the initiative to chase after the girl. However, sometimes women need to at least make it apparent that their at least interested in us guys. Maybe a good smile or something

melleasy · Answer

let me holla at you little mama man know women notice them when they act like they don't won't nothing to do with them so yes your right sometimes girls do throw there self at guys real hard now of days

you are welcome

huntusa · Answer

I think guys have lots of other better responsibilities to worry about than just chasing girls and waste time. Frankly, I think there is no need to chase someone if both people want real relationship.

green08 · Answer

men don't chase women anymore  because if they don't find it in you they will just look somewhere else

sirbles · Answer

Why splash a dollar when you can get something equally good for less?

BADBOY_IDGAF · Answer

Well women play games so I'm not gonna waste my time. I'm the prize, you want me...come get me times are changing.

EyeSplice · Answer

I agree with you when you blame women for this change.  Women are nuts...

nourreale · Answer

I don't chase because it's pointless too many chasers out there. I just wait till I find the right girl.

Anonymous · Answer

I feel like it's because girls are so picky and don't know a good thing when it's in front of them and many of us guys don't want to waste our time anymore.

Dekin · Answer

I can write a book about this but I'm not going to. Bottom Line, "GIRLS ARE WAY TOO PICKY"

thelook151 · Answer

Yup..you are right..like you said females make it too easy..you know guys like the easy way out...plus technology makes it easier.

Anonymous · Answer

I do! The challenge is half the fun. It's boring when yuo're just given everything. I have never once fell for a girl that just give me what I wanted outright. It's about the journey, not the destination!

Anonymous · Answer

I think it depends. I have chased and been chased, it just depends on personality.

I don't think they have lost the want, maybe they just don't like playing the "cat and mouse" game. And other girls could be tired of it too.

maybe now a days girls like to chase more? so the guys think they should just wait and see what happens.

bunny420 · Answer

Probably because most guys think that if you chase a girl she'll loose interest because it's too easy to get with him. So we don't bother chasing girls.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know.  Maybe it's because now we're teaching "sexual harassment" to 8 year olds and they're scared sh*tless to talk to let alone pursue girls because they're scared of a jail sentence.  I'm no psychologist but I'm guessing that childhood events such as this would probably have an impact on the overall culture of society in the future.

maye8384 · Answer

Girls are chasing guys for sure, I personally think you have to let him know you are interested but not be so attentive it bothers him.

escence_e · Answer

hmm I guess you are clear with your thoughts then why have you asked this question !

jagermeister · Answer

Just give her a d*** in a box and she would come running to you. Trust me I do it all the time. :)

cutekid · Answer

Gues that we are tired of it..and gotten much xperience we need about gurls..lol

Gabywaby · Answer

I totally agree wif u...we ve been acting like desperate girls...prolly TV influence

Michaeldurrant · Answer

Nah, Were Just getting smarter sweetie *wink* *wink*

stktder · Answer

There is eight and a half women to every guy now. We guys are still chasing you, we just don't have to go very far to find you anymore.

SkinnerOne · Answer

Chasing is fun... It'd be nicer to catch some once in a while though.

TexPlayboy · Answer

My wife thinks I spend too much time chasing girls. :-)

BlueGender · Answer

I don't chase anything.  I will pursue a woman to the same degree she pursues me.  If she expects anything else she can f*ck off.

moviedude714 · Answer

I'm just tired of being rejected, how would you feel if you have been single for 21 years and been struggling to get a girl since he was 14!?

Anonymous · Answer

because there is no point. why invest and "wait" for a girl who's probably slept around in the past? f*** that

Anonymous · Answer

Why would we? If you make no effort, then that says that you aren't interested, so there is no motivation for us to try.

davidjoshua · Answer

the reason is all girls are ugly in this world and they are all good for nothing . boys are the real cuties and hotties girls are all fools . I'm not a gay OK . I'm a true boy and I'm telling you the truth

dcdrumsinc · Answer

girls play games when they are young and immature. Guys literally have to wait for the games to stop

Anonymous · Answer

Define chase? Times have changed... Chasing in the traditional way is not considered cool anymore. It makes a man look 'despo.' Also social media and the ease of internet dating means we don't have to linger around bars and clubs anymore to get what we want. Society has changed, expecting a man to chase you with romance, flowers and silly bravado is probably like a man expecting you to bear all his kids, clean his house, cook his meals and rock his world in the sack as well...

jagermeister · Answer

i think it might b becuase the girl makes it too easy. u just gotta play hard to get. it's just nowadays guys and girls are dumber and crazier.

cjwright79 · Answer

We don't want or need you.

GLENNBOB1 · Answer

i can tell you onr thing I chase girls. or I did before I met my  faithy poo

niceguy333 · Answer

not sure what planet you are from but it's 50/50 equal both sexes chase the same.  but can you catch the person...that's the "challenge" you are speaking of.

Anonymous · Answer

some girls play too difficult to get..it can frustrate guys

roadkingp · Answer

I am tired of girls acting bitchy.

Anonymous · Answer

Why do we have to be chasing you?

NewUser101 · Answer

Whatever happened to a friend that doesn't leave you?

crazzzzygurl · Answer

Yes they do there just picky so they can find the right one

FernandoS · Answer

girls wanted emancipation, they got it.

0ddjob · Answer

Invest? Sure. Absolutely! Chase? No.

kangaru · Answer

gosh I didn't know it is so bad now...

Xperment · Answer

Guys are more afraid to get rejected

CollinLA · Answer

I always thought it was the other way around

Marrryyyyy · Answer

I feel 100% like you

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