Polls: Dating

I'm currently talking to a guy. He's great but he's already asking me about how much money I make a year, what do I think about having a house husband, and one night he randomly hit me up and asked for 60 dollars for gas money. Are these red flags or I'm I just over reacting? I don't want to be considered shallow or anything.

So, women, if you went on a date with a guy and you both went 50-50, would it be a red flag if he asked about your job and how much money you make a year?

My boyfriend and I hung out with his friends at the pool for most of the day. The evening I had dinner plans with girl friends and potentially grabbing some drinks after. Because we ended up having to care for one of my boyfriends friends I ended up running a little late to my girls night. Since I was having a girls night my boyfriend had to have a boys night. He passively aggressively texted me the whole night saying have fun with your friends I guess I’ll just see you later... anyways once he got home he said hey I’m going to go to bed the door is open. No worries, I let him know we were on our last drink and just chatting and then I would be heading home. He kept making comments about staying with someone else which I ignored because I know he was drunkenly saying it. Right as I get in my friends car I let him know I am heading his way and he text me no just stay with your friend because I’m locking you out. He has my apartment key so I can’t even go to my place if he does end up locking me out. I get to his and sure enough I’m locked out and he isn’t answering his phone and my dog is barking on the other side. Finally after 45 minutes he answers and says fuck off. We are supposed to be moving in together in a month and he is meeting my family this week. The places I went to tonight were both restaurants, not bars, clubs etc. I stayed in contact with him the whole time. I feel very uneasy with his reaction and not sure how to handle it.

Option 1: these 3 girls

Option 2: these two girls

In some places it's okay but some places it's not. In your own opinion and state of mind. Can this happen?

#FeelFreeToList #ThatThingTheyOftenDo
I listed examples on the poll but also feel free to list examples of your own. here's some of mine—
- He's either a gamer or an anime lover... like dammit lol. Like its not baaaad but it kinda is cause these dudes are usually obsessed with one or both. I don't know how i keep attracting gamers and shit 🤣
- He’s either atheist or hardcore trump supporter. I dont care if you're republican. I personally choose to stay out of politics. But i also dont like being constantly questioned about my religious beliefs 🤷‍♀️
- He’s either jobless or rich. And i dont mean jobless due to covid. Like a lot of dudes dont have degrees but also have no intentions of getting a job anytime soon. Like nahh.. you’re cute but we won't work. The rich dudes are on a powertrip and think they can get anything out of me with a financial bribe. Lmao they got the wrong one. I got my own (when im not wasting it at the casino) 😂
- Theyre either sexual or not at all. Like damn i may not wanna have sex witcho ass anytime soon but i still like to talk dirty. I got some kinda needs 🙈
- They either live far away or live here with their mom. I’m tired of ldr but im not against it. And the ones who live with their mom usually have no intentions of moving out within a year or less so its just disappointing. 🙄
- Found out someone I was starting to like has a kid. Now thats a new one... i mean at least its only one kid so thats not a dealbreaker. Shocked the kid is like already 8 or something. But at least the baby mama is remarried and they can't stand eachother. So yea I don't know what will happen there.

I kinda have this thing where I don't want to date a guy who's too good looking because I'm overweight and not that facially attractive. I've been told by people that my mindset is horrible and it's proof that I have such low value in myself but honestly he can find someone better looking... Is it fair to turn down a guy for being too good looking?

It’s about time for me to be like Marilyn Monroe.

I love Harry Styles but masculine men are better

... to eliminate the possibility that they only want you for your money? ... or you wouldn't care?

I asked a similar question last year and most said to just not let them know about it. But how can you do that if it is easy to detect by where you live and many other tell tale factors.

I mean, let's just say for example, if your dad has two private jets, helicopters and a heliport on your property and you are surrounded by body guards... how can you hide it from them so that you know they are not just after you for money?

... and what if being around all that wealth makes you lonely even though there are lots of people around because you can't be around ordinary people whenever you want to for fear of kidnapping, etc?

... what if you don't like most of the spoiled conceded guys and girls in your social circle, but can't hang around those who are from average social circles without them shunning you as the elite snob when you're not? ... but they are automatically jealous of you with a per-conceived bias?

What is your thought about this type of dilemma that a young person born into a rich family at no fault of her, or his, own would have finding someone that would love them for who they are and not for their inheritance?

Open to a thoughts, opinions, and suggestions