Questions: Dating

Within what kinds of conditions do you choose whom you will date?

What are the parameters?

What are the guidelines?

Do you have a cut off point?

how does it work?

How do you know the person has the same goals?

Growing up, never imagined marriage - or sex- or relationships - growing up so none of it is an obvious forgone conclusion for me even now…so I’m very curious how dating works for people who already know what they want and will only dare to marry.

THANKS!!

We were at restaurant and sitting facing each other. Then i put both of my hands on the table (palm facing up) then while he was talking, he suddenly hold my hand (not fully hold it, but halfway hold, near my thumb area up to my mid palm) while still talking.. Which the topic we talk about is not even related to us, we were talking about animal at that time haha

i dont know if friends ever do this, or even close friend and if he ever have interest in me

Just curious if these actually meant something. Specially for the man and for woman what's your opinion?

By seems perfect, I mean there seems to be only green flags. I'm talking about personality. In terms of looks, let's just say there is no problem with either person.

By so flawed, I mean there is definitely at least one red flag but you won't have to risk rejection because this person likes you already. Maybe this person will change for you. That's the hope for some people obviously.